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Dr. Asad Rafi

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ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

Coupled with the fact that you can't even pick up with the bodily signals,

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

with the interception problems, you're never going to recognize that your body's going into shutdown until it's too late.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

So you're on a hiding to nowhere with it, really, aren't you?

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

That can be significantly explosive and violent.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And that aggression can often be internalized.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And how that can manifest, and we see it a lot, is in terms of self-harming behavior, self-injury.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

When we're asking people who engage in cutting or self-injury, they'll often say, my intention isn't to end my life.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

It's not a suicidal gesture.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

I said, tell me more about it.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

What was the intention there?

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

Firstly, they'll often say it's impulsive.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And what we get, the ultimate explanation then that we reach is that it becomes a manifestation of trying to articulate internal emotion.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

Feeling that physical pain is like a release of that emotion.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And often...

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

The intention isn't there to hurt themselves.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

They come across that inadvertently and they see that release.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

It almost has an addictive or compulsive quality to it.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And when it's described in that way, many people can relate to it.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

Certainly those who engage in that.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

The problem you have there is those types of behaviours