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Dr. Asad Rafi

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
428 total appearances

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ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

You know, we need to be using these platforms in the best possible way to help others.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

Absolutely.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

There are common themes.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

People who have not been listened to.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

They've not been heard.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

They've not been understood.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And as I said, they've not been validated.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And that leads to almost a chronic distrust of doctors like me.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And the first piece of work I've got to do is to try and rebuild that trust.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And I often say that there's nothing new that I'm going to tell you today.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

My job is to join those dots, to help you to understand how everything connects and ultimately to help you to understand yourself better.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

So yeah, absolutely.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

We're in a situation where we're seeing many women who come to our practice, who seek out that help and support because they've not been given the right answers in the past.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

I can think of many.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And I think one of the most recent cases that I'd seen really brings home to roost a lot of the issues that women, not necessarily with ADHD, but just women in general,

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

tend to demonstrate, which is significant sacrifice.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And this particular case has sat with me on a personal level for, well, since the moment that I met this family.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And it was a young boy who had been brought to clinic with mum and dad to understand whether or not he had ADHD, which he did.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And mum kept intimating to me that she wanted some time by herself.

ADHD Chatter
Leading Psychiatrist: How To Process A Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief Is The First Stage!

And I wasn't sure as to what that conversation was likely to be about.