Dr. Bethany Marshall

I think he was already heading off the defense when he said flirty because domestic violence perpetrators always think their wives are flirting with other people, even when they are not.

Why, Bethany?

Or you've drained our bank account when really they're draining the bank account.

The reason why, Nancy, is that these men, they want to control the wives.

They see the wives as objects who should not have any dependence or autonomy.

And a part of the control is, I get to do what I want to do, but you can't do what you want to do.

And the fact that he accuses her of draining their accounts...

tells me that she wasn't even in charge of the finances which is a part of the the abuse process that if the wife even tries to touch mutual funds for any reason she's accused of dissipating marital funds and this this is another projection i think i think what's going to come out is prob perhaps he was having an affairs perhaps he was dissipating marital funds he had

I think allegedly complete control.

But Nancy, it's a projection.

You're cheating when in fact I'm cheating, but it's much more nefarious and deep.

It's that if you enjoy anybody, if somebody sees your beauty, my control over you might slip.

But I don't care at all if I have affairs because I lack empathy towards you and you're just an object.

So I'm going to go out.

In fact, that horrible feeling of jealousy I have, I'm going to reverse it into you by having sex with other women and then you're going to see how it feels.

But it's all in their head, Nancy.

It's all made up.

You know, Nancy, I saw that footage.

I did.

I watched him break down in court.