Dr. Cheyenne Bryant
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And he wasn't always able to have the emotional intelligence needed to totally facilitate us through certain things. And so I started saying, you know, well, what have I become when I am pregnant, we're married and are pregnant and I'm having these, these moments and he's not able to facilitate me. He's shutting down for four or five days and we're in the house together.
And he wasn't always able to have the emotional intelligence needed to totally facilitate us through certain things. And so I started saying, you know, well, what have I become when I am pregnant, we're married and are pregnant and I'm having these, these moments and he's not able to facilitate me. He's shutting down for four or five days and we're in the house together.
And mind you, he was 14 years older than me. And so in my mind, I'm thinking,
And mind you, he was 14 years older than me. And so in my mind, I'm thinking,
which most of us think older man the maturity is going to be there yeah he can facilitate this that's not an age thing that's just an experience and wisdom thing yeah and and and to his defense you know i believe he tried his best to but when it came to us having friction the second part of it was he was still very into that unemotional intelligence where girl we go five days without talking in the same house oh no and i said baby i can't be married like that don't
which most of us think older man the maturity is going to be there yeah he can facilitate this that's not an age thing that's just an experience and wisdom thing yeah and and and to his defense you know i believe he tried his best to but when it came to us having friction the second part of it was he was still very into that unemotional intelligence where girl we go five days without talking in the same house oh no and i said baby i can't be married like that don't
So two things, it was duality of you have these beautiful girls who have nothing to do with my decision. It's all my values and what I want. And the other thing is you're not able to problem solve and bring resolve quick enough in this house.
So two things, it was duality of you have these beautiful girls who have nothing to do with my decision. It's all my values and what I want. And the other thing is you're not able to problem solve and bring resolve quick enough in this house.
I think no. I think God would have found a gentle way like he did in this relationship to sever it because God knows my heart. And like you said, I know the plans that I have for you, plans to prosper you and give you a good life. And I know that he knows a good life for me is me, my husband, and our babies. And God built me, so he knows how he built my little territorial self.
I think no. I think God would have found a gentle way like he did in this relationship to sever it because God knows my heart. And like you said, I know the plans that I have for you, plans to prosper you and give you a good life. And I know that he knows a good life for me is me, my husband, and our babies. And God built me, so he knows how he built my little territorial self.
And he knows that I don't want to look across the room and see my husband... As selfish as it may sound for others, for me, it's not selfish. It's me. I don't want to look across the room and see my husband engaging, interacting with someone else's child. That's not mine. The second thing is I'm a type of woman that if I'm with a man with kids, I'm fully invested.
And he knows that I don't want to look across the room and see my husband... As selfish as it may sound for others, for me, it's not selfish. It's me. I don't want to look across the room and see my husband engaging, interacting with someone else's child. That's not mine. The second thing is I'm a type of woman that if I'm with a man with kids, I'm fully invested.
Those kids will be treated no different than my kids. I will love and invest in them, like their minds. And just like when him and I, when I called off the wedding, I left. He got to keep the family. I left as a single woman having to go create my own family.
Those kids will be treated no different than my kids. I will love and invest in them, like their minds. And just like when him and I, when I called off the wedding, I left. He got to keep the family. I left as a single woman having to go create my own family.
So that's an investment a lot of women and men make where they're coming in and being step-mom or step-daddy, and if that relationship ends, those kids are not yours. It's very rare that those kids roll with you. When mom or dad gets another relationship, guess what? It's the next step-mommy or daddy. So where did the return on your investment go?
So that's an investment a lot of women and men make where they're coming in and being step-mom or step-daddy, and if that relationship ends, those kids are not yours. It's very rare that those kids roll with you. When mom or dad gets another relationship, guess what? It's the next step-mommy or daddy. So where did the return on your investment go?
is more the relationship for me, regardless. And so through my experiences, I know the no kid guy, that's my guy. I'm able to be fully open, fully present with him. There's just, that's my thing. I just have to have that. That's a non-negotiable. The second thing is,
is more the relationship for me, regardless. And so through my experiences, I know the no kid guy, that's my guy. I'm able to be fully open, fully present with him. There's just, that's my thing. I just have to have that. That's a non-negotiable. The second thing is,
you know faith is an action word and you know I was a little girl in the inner city a product of two parents who were teenagers my mom was addicted to the drug that my father sold and she's now sober thank God and she's killing the game VP of my company got her own business she's doing her thing and my father
you know faith is an action word and you know I was a little girl in the inner city a product of two parents who were teenagers my mom was addicted to the drug that my father sold and she's now sober thank God and she's killing the game VP of my company got her own business she's doing her thing and my father