Dr. Cheyenne Bryant
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to support me in the sense of once I left, you know, he was giving me money to leave. No, when we left, we left. And my last text message to him was, I left the house. Thank you for taking such great care of me. I am so grateful for you. Continue blessings. And he texted me back and said, same to you. You know, thank you for everything. Continue blessings. It wasn't bitter.
to support me in the sense of once I left, you know, he was giving me money to leave. No, when we left, we left. And my last text message to him was, I left the house. Thank you for taking such great care of me. I am so grateful for you. Continue blessings. And he texted me back and said, same to you. You know, thank you for everything. Continue blessings. It wasn't bitter.
But I thanked him because what he... that man took care of us. I mean, like literally was a retired basketball player and was doing okay, but went and got a second regular job, Crystal, to make sure he can fit me into his world. And to me, that is just so just admirable. And when you see a man put in that much effort, my opinion is, I don't care how alpha you are, you peak your submissive.
But I thanked him because what he... that man took care of us. I mean, like literally was a retired basketball player and was doing okay, but went and got a second regular job, Crystal, to make sure he can fit me into his world. And to me, that is just so just admirable. And when you see a man put in that much effort, my opinion is, I don't care how alpha you are, you peak your submissive.
And that was my first time where I literally, organically, my alpha was like doormat and my submissive was like fully flamed. And I fell in love with me probably more than he did because I was like, oh, this submissive woman is, she's everything. I love this. And yeah, anything he needed, he can come home at 12 from working out. And he's like, I'm hungry. I'm like, what do you want? No problem.
And that was my first time where I literally, organically, my alpha was like doormat and my submissive was like fully flamed. And I fell in love with me probably more than he did because I was like, oh, this submissive woman is, she's everything. I love this. And yeah, anything he needed, he can come home at 12 from working out. And he's like, I'm hungry. I'm like, what do you want? No problem.
Put my little gospel music on and I'm in that kitchen at 12 a.m. cooking, having a good time. So they do exist. But you just have to make sure that you're choosing what works for you.
Put my little gospel music on and I'm in that kitchen at 12 a.m. cooking, having a good time. So they do exist. But you just have to make sure that you're choosing what works for you.
I actually love myself. So I don't date men with kids. And he knew that when we first started dating. I obviously knew that he had two beautiful young adult daughters, but we still both continued to pursue each other. and ended up in a relationship, ended up loving each other and engaged. And we would sit in bed, Crystal, we'd have the most amazing day, things would be good.
I actually love myself. So I don't date men with kids. And he knew that when we first started dating. I obviously knew that he had two beautiful young adult daughters, but we still both continued to pursue each other. and ended up in a relationship, ended up loving each other and engaged. And we would sit in bed, Crystal, we'd have the most amazing day, things would be good.
And I would just lay in bed and I say, babe, and I'm like, baby, he's like, yup. I'm like, I'm having those feels again. And he's like, what? And I'm like, I love that we're a family, because we were. The girls would come and we'd have dinner. I'd cook. But I'm like, I love our family unit. It's not your girls at all. They did nothing derogatory to the relationship. I mean, he made it a breeze.
And I would just lay in bed and I say, babe, and I'm like, baby, he's like, yup. I'm like, I'm having those feels again. And he's like, what? And I'm like, I love that we're a family, because we were. The girls would come and we'd have dinner. I'd cook. But I'm like, I love our family unit. It's not your girls at all. They did nothing derogatory to the relationship. I mean, he made it a breeze.
There was no baby mama drama. I never even met their mamas. The oldest daughter would talk to me about her mom and some concerns they would have. And I would totally facilitate it, be open. I would work out what his girls eat. I mean, it was never them. And even after we broke up, me and his daughter, she still kept in contact. But I say that to say, I would say, it's not you. It's not them.
There was no baby mama drama. I never even met their mamas. The oldest daughter would talk to me about her mom and some concerns they would have. And I would totally facilitate it, be open. I would work out what his girls eat. I mean, it was never them. And even after we broke up, me and his daughter, she still kept in contact. But I say that to say, I would say, it's not you. It's not them.
It's me. My spirit isn't letting me go against... my values of what I don't want. I come from a father who has six of us by five different women. And since I can remember speaking and thinking, I used to say, daddy, I love all my siblings, but I don't like that you did this with five women. And I don't want that. And my ex fiance had two beautiful girls by two different women.
It's me. My spirit isn't letting me go against... my values of what I don't want. I come from a father who has six of us by five different women. And since I can remember speaking and thinking, I used to say, daddy, I love all my siblings, but I don't like that you did this with five women. And I don't want that. And my ex fiance had two beautiful girls by two different women.
So you said you were seeing my dad was my baby And I and I know you think he's different cuz it's too he's not why he's not He's not so I told you You know, we had this agreement and I was like, but daddy he takes care of me and he loves me and we're good And my dad was like baby. Wow, I'm telling you hold off on the wedding hold off and so would have these conversations.
So you said you were seeing my dad was my baby And I and I know you think he's different cuz it's too he's not why he's not He's not so I told you You know, we had this agreement and I was like, but daddy he takes care of me and he loves me and we're good And my dad was like baby. Wow, I'm telling you hold off on the wedding hold off and so would have these conversations.
And when I learned that there was nothing he could do to shift how I felt in here, and it wasn't his responsibility to shift me, I had to be authentic and really show my love for him and say, I can't be married and have kids. And it's continued to be this burden on us. And you try to facilitate it. And through a lot of those spaces, it will cause some conflict.
And when I learned that there was nothing he could do to shift how I felt in here, and it wasn't his responsibility to shift me, I had to be authentic and really show my love for him and say, I can't be married and have kids. And it's continued to be this burden on us. And you try to facilitate it. And through a lot of those spaces, it will cause some conflict.