Dr. Cheyenne Bryant

But two, I wanted him to know I'm reassuring you too. And you can text back. You can respond. You have that access. You have that authority. You're my man. You're mine. We're getting married. And I'm transparent. And if there's something you see in there and we need to talk about and I need to shift, I'm willing to shift it. No big deal.

But two, I wanted him to know I'm reassuring you too. And you can text back. You can respond. You have that access. You have that authority. You're my man. You're mine. We're getting married. And I'm transparent. And if there's something you see in there and we need to talk about and I need to shift, I'm willing to shift it. No big deal.

But luckily, knock on wood, with both of my engagements, with full access, I've never ran into anything, I've never seen, I mean, I've had access to Facebook pages, social media, but for me, that is my reassurance. And I like that type of access. And so, again, on the first date, if a man is like, nah, that ain't me, then I don't just walk off the dinner.

But luckily, knock on wood, with both of my engagements, with full access, I've never ran into anything, I've never seen, I mean, I've had access to Facebook pages, social media, but for me, that is my reassurance. And I like that type of access. And so, again, on the first date, if a man is like, nah, that ain't me, then I don't just walk off the dinner.

I'm mature, but I do understand that that's not my type of guy. And I've had men follow up like date number two, and I say, look, I don't want to waste your time. I am a woman who's an access woman, and I just would never even be intimate with you if I can't access what's going on. Because if there is a disease or if there is something coming from someone, it's in that phone. It's in that phone.

I'm mature, but I do understand that that's not my type of guy. And I've had men follow up like date number two, and I say, look, I don't want to waste your time. I am a woman who's an access woman, and I just would never even be intimate with you if I can't access what's going on. Because if there is a disease or if there is something coming from someone, it's in that phone. It's in that phone.

And I'm not playing with my body. I'm not playing with my heart. And so I'm good. I love that.

And I'm not playing with my body. I'm not playing with my heart. And so I'm good. I love that.

And again, I say this with all the compassion for the women who have been left.

And again, I say this with all the compassion for the women who have been left.

I think if I was the one being left, I probably would be on the other side of the emotion. I probably would maybe feel a little disempowered or kind of like, what am I not doing right or why me? But being that I was the one that was pursued, obviously. Right. And I pursued back once I wanted them and asked.

I think if I was the one being left, I probably would be on the other side of the emotion. I probably would maybe feel a little disempowered or kind of like, what am I not doing right or why me? But being that I was the one that was pursued, obviously. Right. And I pursued back once I wanted them and asked.

right, and chose and chose back, and then I did the leaving and I called off both engagements or both weddings, as crazy as it sounds, it does put, it gives me leverage.

right, and chose and chose back, and then I did the leaving and I called off both engagements or both weddings, as crazy as it sounds, it does put, it gives me leverage.

It puts me in a position of power, not a power where I'm taking advantage of, a power of I did the leaving, so I'm still the woman who was desired, pursued, they still wanted the relationship when I left, and I didn't leave because they weren't great men, I left because they weren't my men forever.

It puts me in a position of power, not a power where I'm taking advantage of, a power of I did the leaving, so I'm still the woman who was desired, pursued, they still wanted the relationship when I left, and I didn't leave because they weren't great men, I left because they weren't my men forever.

And I wasn't gonna continue to be in a relationship, even with my last fiance, where I was fully taken care of. I didn't pay a bill, buy a grape. I made sure he had food, I was cooking, I was definitely fully submissive to whatever he needed, which I loved, by the way. I love that. I love that role, just so you men know. I love that submission role. So you can take care of me any day.

And I wasn't gonna continue to be in a relationship, even with my last fiance, where I was fully taken care of. I didn't pay a bill, buy a grape. I made sure he had food, I was cooking, I was definitely fully submissive to whatever he needed, which I loved, by the way. I love that. I love that role, just so you men know. I love that submission role. So you can take care of me any day.

But I still wasn't gonna stay in a relationship allow him to take full care of me right knowing that I didn't want to be with this man I wasn't staying to use him I wasn't staying to be taken care of he didn't take care of me because I didn't have my own I was a doctor already I have my own money I have my own reserves and I also didn't need him to

But I still wasn't gonna stay in a relationship allow him to take full care of me right knowing that I didn't want to be with this man I wasn't staying to use him I wasn't staying to be taken care of he didn't take care of me because I didn't have my own I was a doctor already I have my own money I have my own reserves and I also didn't need him to