Dr. Cheyenne Bryant

And so I'm working on that before I get into that. And I feel like me coming in open-minded, without all of these conditions in compartmentalizing like I did in my younger days when I was engaged, coming in with these conditions, if this happens, if this happens, I'm done. Well, baby, you already done.

And so I'm working on that before I get into that. And I feel like me coming in open-minded, without all of these conditions in compartmentalizing like I did in my younger days when I was engaged, coming in with these conditions, if this happens, if this happens, I'm done. Well, baby, you already done.

You're done.

You're done.

And if you have this fairytale ideology, fairytales end at some point.

And if you have this fairytale ideology, fairytales end at some point.

And you got to learn how to to see in others what you want to see in them and what you want to experience. That has been one of my biggest blessings is what do I want to experience with Crystal? So what lens do I have to see? I have to see that in her because I'm responsible for my experience.

And you got to learn how to to see in others what you want to see in them and what you want to experience. That has been one of my biggest blessings is what do I want to experience with Crystal? So what lens do I have to see? I have to see that in her because I'm responsible for my experience.

And in a marriage or a relationship, do I want to see my husband as having to be perfect so that I'm always having to find something I can criticize for? Or can I just accept him for being a man and say, that's my husband?

And in a marriage or a relationship, do I want to see my husband as having to be perfect so that I'm always having to find something I can criticize for? Or can I just accept him for being a man and say, that's my husband?

That's just the stuff, girl, girl. And I take them in dosage sometimes, right? How do we do that? And then the other thing is the Bible says marriage is for disciplined people.

That's just the stuff, girl, girl. And I take them in dosage sometimes, right? How do we do that? And then the other thing is the Bible says marriage is for disciplined people.

And that's because I have to be disciplined enough to know also how to self-soothe when you're only at 60% of satisfying me. What do I do with that 40%? Do I self-soothe? Do I cheat? Yeah. Do I ridicule you? Do I emasculate you? Does he disempower you? Does he have a side chick for the 40% you can't cover that he knew you couldn't cover when he first met you?

And that's because I have to be disciplined enough to know also how to self-soothe when you're only at 60% of satisfying me. What do I do with that 40%? Do I self-soothe? Do I cheat? Yeah. Do I ridicule you? Do I emasculate you? Does he disempower you? Does he have a side chick for the 40% you can't cover that he knew you couldn't cover when he first met you?

You knew this when you got with this woman. You knew this. Or when you become the mother of his children, how does he self-soothe while you're transitioning from mommyhood to duality of wife and mommy?

You knew this when you got with this woman. You knew this. Or when you become the mother of his children, how does he self-soothe while you're transitioning from mommyhood to duality of wife and mommy?

And my first fiance's mom, she was so amazing at this. When we first got engaged, she took me on this ride, girl. And she was like, okay, honey, I got to talk to you. And I'm like, okay. And she's like, you know, I buy you lingerie for birthdays and Christmas. That's for my son, which I loved. I was like, okay.

And my first fiance's mom, she was so amazing at this. When we first got engaged, she took me on this ride, girl. And she was like, okay, honey, I got to talk to you. And I'm like, okay. And she's like, you know, I buy you lingerie for birthdays and Christmas. That's for my son, which I loved. I was like, okay.

And she was like, you know, and when y'all have your first kids, I just want you to know. I just want you to know. Now, that hole down there may not work. But as a wife, you have other holes and you have a mouth. His mom said that to you? Let me tell you how genius, though, I thought that was. Because she was looking out for her son.

And she was like, you know, and when y'all have your first kids, I just want you to know. I just want you to know. Now, that hole down there may not work. But as a wife, you have other holes and you have a mouth. His mom said that to you? Let me tell you how genius, though, I thought that was. Because she was looking out for her son.