Dr. Ciara Kelly

They're not really bothered.

But for those who are on the receiving end of maybe being rejected as a friend, I think it's important to remember, first of all, it probably isn't about you.

It's probably about them.

And jealousy is one thing that drives these things, yes.

Callousness maybe, but also it isn't always jealousy.

That's them resenting yourself.

Sometimes people...

I think in these situations also do it because they think there's better out there.

They think that they're a bit too good for the friendship and that they're going to find a better friend or a cooler friend or a funnier friend or a friend who reflects better on them in some way, which is also not a good trait, by the way.

So the cutting off, we're coming up here, I think, we're coming down on the side of the withdrawer

Well, that's a whole other story.

It's like Cork, isn't it?

Heard it here first.

Hang on, someone sleeping with my partner, I'm cutting off the friendship there and it's not callous.

You do that to me.

That line is not repairable for me.

And it's not even, it may not even be like,

I don't have to be even mad about the partner, the love of my life or something.

I'm just like, you did that to me.

I'm so irrelevant to you that you think that that was okay.