Dr. Clare Crowe

So the expectations are you're respectful and courteous to people who come into the house.

The limits are what you can say in terms of sharing your belief system.

So like for me, he's 21.

He's definitely at an age now, you know, we think of the brain evolving and stopping at 18, but it's not true.

It goes to 24, really, where we see that frontal lobe brain development.

But I would really want to talk with him, but I would want boundaries in place because that's at a threshold where there's risk.

So actually what he's sharing with the younger members of the household is problematic and how he's dictating what happens in the household is problematic.

So there are parameters there that say, actually, this isn't good enough.

And if you want to continue to be in this space, in this family, in this household space, then these are what we expect from you.