Dr. Eliza Philby

But he was doing everything that a traditional housewife.

He was being a partner.

Right.

He was being a partner.

But it's incredible how we still, after 40 years of feminism, unable to accept that in society.

isn't honest but but i mean to to just add a counter argument yeah go please if you look at all the data women want high value men like the whole marry a guy in finance yeah phenomenon is a consequence of of an economy where it used to be you could survive on a male breadwinner salary right now you need two salaries yeah completely two salaries so you actually need more than ever you

you know, men to step up and to provide, particularly if the woman wants children.

And obviously we are talking about heterosexual normative relationships here.

There is a lot of variance and dynamics here.

Of course there are, and difference.

But it is quite telling that women are very economically driven when looking for a mate.

Yeah.

And you're so hit, brilliant point, which is it's all about expectation.

Yes.

Mo Gowdat, you know the- Oh, of course.

He has this whole theory about happiness and it's all based around expectation.

Yes.

Whether they're met or unmet or surpassed.

And the guy that wrote to me and said, the system has failed me.

had higher expectations.