Dr. Ellen Langer

Now if you blame, it's better to forgive than not forgive. But if you understand why the person did what they did, it obviates the necessity for blame, which then obviates the necessity for forgiveness. I'd love to bypass blame. Yeah, well, I think that's the way to do it is to recognize in a more open-minded way the motivations that people have vary, the consequences.

Now if you blame, it's better to forgive than not forgive. But if you understand why the person did what they did, it obviates the necessity for blame, which then obviates the necessity for forgiveness. I'd love to bypass blame. Yeah, well, I think that's the way to do it is to recognize in a more open-minded way the motivations that people have vary, the consequences.

No matter what you do, whatever negative thing it seems, positive things will follow if you allow them and you look at it that way.

No matter what you do, whatever negative thing it seems, positive things will follow if you allow them and you look at it that way.

No matter what you do, whatever negative thing it seems, positive things will follow if you allow them and you look at it that way.

Oh, that's right. It's your podcast. Yes, you can. It's definitely not my podcast.

Oh, that's right. It's your podcast. Yes, you can. It's definitely not my podcast.

Oh, that's right. It's your podcast. Yes, you can. It's definitely not my podcast.

I don't think there is a compulsion to develop anything in particular. I think there's a compulsion to develop. There's a compulsion. I wouldn't call it compulsion because that sounds negative. But I think that... A drive. Yeah. Are you... No. All mindfulness is is noticing new things, creating new things. With that creation, we're maximally alive.

I don't think there is a compulsion to develop anything in particular. I think there's a compulsion to develop. There's a compulsion. I wouldn't call it compulsion because that sounds negative. But I think that... A drive. Yeah. Are you... No. All mindfulness is is noticing new things, creating new things. With that creation, we're maximally alive.

I don't think there is a compulsion to develop anything in particular. I think there's a compulsion to develop. There's a compulsion. I wouldn't call it compulsion because that sounds negative. But I think that... A drive. Yeah. Are you... No. All mindfulness is is noticing new things, creating new things. With that creation, we're maximally alive.

And so if we happen to be on the technology train, then it's technology that's going to get our attention. The people who are in other areas, whether it's creating music, doing what you and I do, it doesn't seem to me any different in principle.

And so if we happen to be on the technology train, then it's technology that's going to get our attention. The people who are in other areas, whether it's creating music, doing what you and I do, it doesn't seem to me any different in principle.

And so if we happen to be on the technology train, then it's technology that's going to get our attention. The people who are in other areas, whether it's creating music, doing what you and I do, it doesn't seem to me any different in principle.

But I don't think that it's durability is what matters. I think then that becomes a social construction. You know, what is the group, the Asians, you know, monks who are going to create art. And, you know, as soon as it's finished, then you bring it down to the water and, you know, to show that nothing lasts.

But I don't think that it's durability is what matters. I think then that becomes a social construction. You know, what is the group, the Asians, you know, monks who are going to create art. And, you know, as soon as it's finished, then you bring it down to the water and, you know, to show that nothing lasts.

But I don't think that it's durability is what matters. I think then that becomes a social construction. You know, what is the group, the Asians, you know, monks who are going to create art. And, you know, as soon as it's finished, then you bring it down to the water and, you know, to show that nothing lasts.

Sandcastle no selfie, I call it.

Sandcastle no selfie, I call it.

Sandcastle no selfie, I call it.