Menu
Sign In Search Podcasts Charts People & Topics Add Podcast API Blog Pricing

Dr. Ellen Langer

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3105 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

So now two-thirds of holding constant, the two-thirds part, but they're much smaller letters.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

And again, people could see what they couldn't see.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

Exactly.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

So the whole point as you're getting to it is to recognize that who says you can't do it?

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

And you don't want to be able to do everything perfectly because then it's like playing tic-tac-toe with a five-year-old.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

You're always going to win, but there's no there there.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

But the reason we have to understand that it's exciting is because we don't have to be afraid of, quote, negative consequences.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

Because consequences in and of themselves are not good.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

They're not bad.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

They're just events.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

But when we frame them as awful, then we're going to experience them as awful.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

All you want is to constantly be inspired, excited, engaged in something.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

And when you're not sure, it's easy to become engaged.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

If you know what I was going to say next, why listen to me?

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

about it is likely to be more successful.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

Right.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

So we have to get rid of the idea that there are good things and bad things, things I like, things I hate, people I like, people I hate, tastes that are, you know, good for us, bad for us.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

All of this is a function of our mindsets.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

Oh, yeah.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
#1 Harvard Psychologist: Use Your Mind to Heal Your Body

So this is the second study in testing the mind-body unity idea.