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Dr. Gabor Maté

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The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

So what I'm saying is that addiction is never a choice.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

and it's not some kind of genetic disease, which that is total nonsense.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

What it actually is, is an attempt to solve a problem in your life.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

In your case, you were trying to solve the problem of being trapped, which is based on your childhood trauma, which you publicly talk about.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

In my case,

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

The workaholism was about trying to prove to myself that I had the right to exist, that it was important.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

You're worthy of love.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

That I was worthy of love, exactly.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

Acceptance and all that.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

Now that also came from a childhood experience.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

So addiction is never like either a disease as such.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

It can behave like a disease, but it isn't a disease as such.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

It's also not a choice anybody makes.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

It's actually an attempt to solve a deep life problem that was imposed on a person by trauma in every case.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

Well, I think very rarely it is possible for an individual.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

Maybe they have some deep spiritual experience.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

Maybe they're out there in nature and all of a sudden they're at one with the universe.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

They feel connected.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

Exactly.

The School of Greatness
The Real Reason You Can't Stop Your Addiction | Dr. Gabor Maté

So that can happen.