Dr. Gad Saad

That's why there are no song lyrics that say, I'm looking for a loser that plays video games all day.

But we have many songs where women, for example, are denigrating a guy who's not doing his end of the bargain.

No scrubs by TLC.

I don't want a guy who lives with his mom who doesn't own his car.

I don't want a guy who doesn't shower me with investments and gifts.

Well, I could show you that exact same song in Arabic.

I can show you that exact same song in French.

I could show you that song in Urdu, the language they speak in Pakistan.

The reason why every single culture has the exact same song lyrics is because the biological imperatives that shape women and men's desires don't suddenly change as a function of cultural contingencies.

Those are called universals.

So to answer your question and to summarize the answer,

Yes, there are many things that men and women's mating scores are the same across the two sexes, but there are many that are perfectly different.

Thank you.

Well, Suicidal Empathy is not yet available for pre-order, but I know that the publisher, given how viral and how much buzz there is around it, is trying to get the book out hopefully by next April.

So I suspect in the next two, three months,

It should be available for pre-order.

The book is titled Suicidal Empathy.

Please do pre-order it as soon as it's available to do so because what ends up happening, if let's say tons of people pre-order it, the first day that the book is released, all of the pre-orders then count as sales, right?

So what happens is you could enter on day one of the book's release into the bestsellers list and then that creates the avalanche.

So please pre-order it as soon as it becomes available.