Dr. Hilary Goldsher

So if you hear this information, err on the side of believing and say that out loud.

If you are the safe other, err on the side of believing and say it. I believe you. And that is not okay. Those are the two things that you should say. I believe you. It is your right to notice, your right to say it's not okay. And then I will help you. And a safe other should not know how they should go about helping someone because that's not their area of expertise.

If you are the safe other, err on the side of believing and say it. I believe you. And that is not okay. Those are the two things that you should say. I believe you. It is your right to notice, your right to say it's not okay. And then I will help you. And a safe other should not know how they should go about helping someone because that's not their area of expertise.

If you are the safe other, err on the side of believing and say it. I believe you. And that is not okay. Those are the two things that you should say. I believe you. It is your right to notice, your right to say it's not okay. And then I will help you. And a safe other should not know how they should go about helping someone because that's not their area of expertise.

But find someone who does, you know, talk to your primary care physician, Google therapist in your neck of the woods that specializes in domestic violence.

But find someone who does, you know, talk to your primary care physician, Google therapist in your neck of the woods that specializes in domestic violence.

But find someone who does, you know, talk to your primary care physician, Google therapist in your neck of the woods that specializes in domestic violence.

there are free or incredibly low fee clinics in most cities. If you're in a very rural part of the country, that might not be true, but perhaps the safe other can take you to the nearest one. So Googling free and or a low fee clinic for mental health will get you in front of a provider or a clinician that can start to help you curate resources. There are

there are free or incredibly low fee clinics in most cities. If you're in a very rural part of the country, that might not be true, but perhaps the safe other can take you to the nearest one. So Googling free and or a low fee clinic for mental health will get you in front of a provider or a clinician that can start to help you curate resources. There are

there are free or incredibly low fee clinics in most cities. If you're in a very rural part of the country, that might not be true, but perhaps the safe other can take you to the nearest one. So Googling free and or a low fee clinic for mental health will get you in front of a provider or a clinician that can start to help you curate resources. There are

Safe houses also for domestic abuse survivors in various cities. Again, not in the smaller ones, but that's another thing that your safe other can help you find. Is there a resource locally or somewhere that you can commute to as a first step?

Safe houses also for domestic abuse survivors in various cities. Again, not in the smaller ones, but that's another thing that your safe other can help you find. Is there a resource locally or somewhere that you can commute to as a first step?

Safe houses also for domestic abuse survivors in various cities. Again, not in the smaller ones, but that's another thing that your safe other can help you find. Is there a resource locally or somewhere that you can commute to as a first step?

Thanks for having me and thanks for your bravery and sharing your story.

Thanks for having me and thanks for your bravery and sharing your story.

Thanks for having me and thanks for your bravery and sharing your story.