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Dr Jeni Haynes

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

So they were trying to... Yeah.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

This is difficult because we'd all... We'd started at 1,000 charges.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

Then we were asked to give what was termed the non-negotiables, the things that Dad was going to plead guilty to.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

So the 85 things he went into court with were already the non-negotiables.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

Yes.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

Symphony referred to this as the non-negotiables.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

I don't know where the goat fits in.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

but we did the non-negotiables.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

And it was difficult because they wanted to make it a plea that he would see as in his favour, so he would agree to it.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

But it was very hard to see those numbers just keep dropping.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

So he...

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

the prosecution, this was the moment where I started to feel empowered.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

So suddenly it was, what do you want?

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

And we wanted 367, but we were faced with, you need to get it down to a reasonable number.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

And I'm thinking, and 367 isn't reasonable.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

How many times did he attack me?

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

How many thousands of times?

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

And don't forget, there are hundreds of other attacks that aren't in that statement because we could not particularise when they happened.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

We knew what happened, but we couldn't tell you whether it was 1977 or 1980.

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Dr Jeni Haynes Created 2681 Personalities To Survive Her Abusive Father

So if we couldn't find a hook to hang it on, we had to cut it already.