Dr. John Deloney

Sure, of course. What does she say to that?

So let's stop communicating in messages because that's how my teenage son communicates with his friends and we're adults and this is too big of a deal. Let's make phone calls, okay?

So let's stop communicating in messages because that's how my teenage son communicates with his friends and we're adults and this is too big of a deal. Let's make phone calls, okay?

So let's stop communicating in messages because that's how my teenage son communicates with his friends and we're adults and this is too big of a deal. Let's make phone calls, okay?

Let's pick up the phone and call and say, I'm going to come pick up my granddaughter and she can stay here until you get on your feet again. If that's what you feel like you need to do. Okay.

Let's pick up the phone and call and say, I'm going to come pick up my granddaughter and she can stay here until you get on your feet again. If that's what you feel like you need to do. Okay.

Let's pick up the phone and call and say, I'm going to come pick up my granddaughter and she can stay here until you get on your feet again. If that's what you feel like you need to do. Okay.

And she may say, I hate you and I can't believe this. Or you may bail her out for three weeks and then she'll come over to the house and say, Oh my gosh, you took my kid. Like who knows what's going to happen in the back end of this deal. But at least for three weeks, that little girl's got a safe place to put her head.

And she may say, I hate you and I can't believe this. Or you may bail her out for three weeks and then she'll come over to the house and say, Oh my gosh, you took my kid. Like who knows what's going to happen in the back end of this deal. But at least for three weeks, that little girl's got a safe place to put her head.

And she may say, I hate you and I can't believe this. Or you may bail her out for three weeks and then she'll come over to the house and say, Oh my gosh, you took my kid. Like who knows what's going to happen in the back end of this deal. But at least for three weeks, that little girl's got a safe place to put her head.

Of course. But listen, you don't get any say into her budget. You don't get any say into where she lives and where she works. That stinks, but you just don't, right? Yeah, I know. Man, I can't even imagine being in the situation you're in. But just because it hurts doesn't mean it's wrong. You don't have a pain-free path forward here.

Of course. But listen, you don't get any say into her budget. You don't get any say into where she lives and where she works. That stinks, but you just don't, right? Yeah, I know. Man, I can't even imagine being in the situation you're in. But just because it hurts doesn't mean it's wrong. You don't have a pain-free path forward here.

Of course. But listen, you don't get any say into her budget. You don't get any say into where she lives and where she works. That stinks, but you just don't, right? Yeah, I know. Man, I can't even imagine being in the situation you're in. But just because it hurts doesn't mean it's wrong. You don't have a pain-free path forward here.

You have to choose the one that's going to hurt and also lead you to where you want to be, which is right now a safe place for your daughter and your bleeding cash that you don't have. And have you grieved your husband's loss?

You have to choose the one that's going to hurt and also lead you to where you want to be, which is right now a safe place for your daughter and your bleeding cash that you don't have. And have you grieved your husband's loss?

You have to choose the one that's going to hurt and also lead you to where you want to be, which is right now a safe place for your daughter and your bleeding cash that you don't have. And have you grieved your husband's loss?

Okay. it's um it's us yeah you know and he would he would probably he's rolling over in his grave seeing me give our money it's okay hey you went through a period of having to survive and you're still breathing and you're good and now we're going to start making some some harder and firmer and more um safe and rational choices right

Okay. it's um it's us yeah you know and he would he would probably he's rolling over in his grave seeing me give our money it's okay hey you went through a period of having to survive and you're still breathing and you're good and now we're going to start making some some harder and firmer and more um safe and rational choices right

Okay. it's um it's us yeah you know and he would he would probably he's rolling over in his grave seeing me give our money it's okay hey you went through a period of having to survive and you're still breathing and you're good and now we're going to start making some some harder and firmer and more um safe and rational choices right

Yeah. Forgive yourself, man. My life would end if my wife passed away. It would stop. And I would hope to give myself some grace on what I did the next few months. I can't even wrap my head around that. So give yourself some grace. You've been trying to keep your family afloat as it's kind of drifting apart from you.