Dr. John Deloney

Yeah. Forgive yourself, man. My life would end if my wife passed away. It would stop. And I would hope to give myself some grace on what I did the next few months. I can't even wrap my head around that. So give yourself some grace. You've been trying to keep your family afloat as it's kind of drifting apart from you.

Yeah. Forgive yourself, man. My life would end if my wife passed away. It would stop. And I would hope to give myself some grace on what I did the next few months. I can't even wrap my head around that. So give yourself some grace. You've been trying to keep your family afloat as it's kind of drifting apart from you.

I'm proud of you, okay?

I'm proud of you, okay?

I'm proud of you, okay?

And now you've got to put your oxygen mask on and make sure you're in a stable enough place so that if you do end up having to take custody over this little granddaughter or whatever you choose to do or your child comes home, whatever you've got to do, you're going to be in a more stable place to do that.

And now you've got to put your oxygen mask on and make sure you're in a stable enough place so that if you do end up having to take custody over this little granddaughter or whatever you choose to do or your child comes home, whatever you've got to do, you're going to be in a more stable place to do that.

And now you've got to put your oxygen mask on and make sure you're in a stable enough place so that if you do end up having to take custody over this little granddaughter or whatever you choose to do or your child comes home, whatever you've got to do, you're going to be in a more stable place to do that.

Okay. I'm proud of you. And, George, the one thing I always tell parents in this situation is don't – Don't pull a gotcha, meaning if you've been giving money for month after month after month after month and it's up to thousands of dollars, in my opinion, that warrants a conversation, not just an overnight cutoff, right?

Okay. I'm proud of you. And, George, the one thing I always tell parents in this situation is don't – Don't pull a gotcha, meaning if you've been giving money for month after month after month after month and it's up to thousands of dollars, in my opinion, that warrants a conversation, not just an overnight cutoff, right?

Okay. I'm proud of you. And, George, the one thing I always tell parents in this situation is don't – Don't pull a gotcha, meaning if you've been giving money for month after month after month after month and it's up to thousands of dollars, in my opinion, that warrants a conversation, not just an overnight cutoff, right?

Because somebody has begun to lean on that money and you have shown up time and time and time again, it's worth a conversation and that can be an uncomfortable one.

Because somebody has begun to lean on that money and you have shown up time and time and time again, it's worth a conversation and that can be an uncomfortable one.

Because somebody has begun to lean on that money and you have shown up time and time and time again, it's worth a conversation and that can be an uncomfortable one.

because she's going to say hey this is it I don't have any more money oh she's just going to let us like it's all her fault right I can't control how you budget how you spend any of that stuff I'm just telling you I don't have any more money right it's worth that conversation and then you got to hold those boundaries firm because those waters are coming and we're going to see if they're going to hold

because she's going to say hey this is it I don't have any more money oh she's just going to let us like it's all her fault right I can't control how you budget how you spend any of that stuff I'm just telling you I don't have any more money right it's worth that conversation and then you got to hold those boundaries firm because those waters are coming and we're going to see if they're going to hold

because she's going to say hey this is it I don't have any more money oh she's just going to let us like it's all her fault right I can't control how you budget how you spend any of that stuff I'm just telling you I don't have any more money right it's worth that conversation and then you got to hold those boundaries firm because those waters are coming and we're going to see if they're going to hold

Well, I'll take it one step further. It's not only like we talk on the show, we often oversimplify it, right? Like you just cut that person off. What if I cut that person off and they have my granddaughter who's four, right? Like it complicates things. And so like we talked about in that call, what's the end goal?

Well, I'll take it one step further. It's not only like we talk on the show, we often oversimplify it, right? Like you just cut that person off. What if I cut that person off and they have my granddaughter who's four, right? Like it complicates things. And so like we talked about in that call, what's the end goal?

Well, I'll take it one step further. It's not only like we talk on the show, we often oversimplify it, right? Like you just cut that person off. What if I cut that person off and they have my granddaughter who's four, right? Like it complicates things. And so like we talked about in that call, what's the end goal?