Dr. John Deloney

I would rather feel the short-term discomfort of not having a gift for every single thing that pops up because I never could buy gifts for anybody or I never got any gifts for anybody. And now I can, so I feel like I have to. She's going to have to give up that short-term pleasure for the long-term safety of me and my husband don't have to worry about not having anything to eat. And that's hard.

And I haven't seen a way to get there without emotion. Yeah. without without a story without you saying this is how i feel yeah and if she looks at you and says i don't care how you feel i'm buying gifts for this thing well now y'all got a deeper issue y'all got to deal with yeah can you do that yeah most definitely

And I haven't seen a way to get there without emotion. Yeah. without without a story without you saying this is how i feel yeah and if she looks at you and says i don't care how you feel i'm buying gifts for this thing well now y'all got a deeper issue y'all got to deal with yeah can you do that yeah most definitely

And I haven't seen a way to get there without emotion. Yeah. without without a story without you saying this is how i feel yeah and if she looks at you and says i don't care how you feel i'm buying gifts for this thing well now y'all got a deeper issue y'all got to deal with yeah can you do that yeah most definitely

Well, that's often really important. Because that's when the $20 plus $20 plus $50 turns into $310. And she goes, oh, gosh, I don't want to do that. Yeah.

Well, that's often really important. Because that's when the $20 plus $20 plus $50 turns into $310. And she goes, oh, gosh, I don't want to do that. Yeah.

Well, that's often really important. Because that's when the $20 plus $20 plus $50 turns into $310. And she goes, oh, gosh, I don't want to do that. Yeah.

Let's get creative.

Let's get creative.

Let's get creative.

He loves it. It was a great gift.

He loves it. It was a great gift.

He loves it. It was a great gift.

Lester, have you tried any of these things we're throwing at you? Does it all sound crazy?

Lester, have you tried any of these things we're throwing at you? Does it all sound crazy?

Lester, have you tried any of these things we're throwing at you? Does it all sound crazy?

Put that plan in front of her and y'all talk through it. And then more importantly than that plan, paint a picture for her of how you're going to be able to breathe in your own home. How are you and her going to have something neither of y'all have ever had, which is economic security? Mm-hmm.

Put that plan in front of her and y'all talk through it. And then more importantly than that plan, paint a picture for her of how you're going to be able to breathe in your own home. How are you and her going to have something neither of y'all have ever had, which is economic security? Mm-hmm.

Put that plan in front of her and y'all talk through it. And then more importantly than that plan, paint a picture for her of how you're going to be able to breathe in your own home. How are you and her going to have something neither of y'all have ever had, which is economic security? Mm-hmm.

Let her just absorb that and feel her husband radiating this thing that you've probably never radiated before, which is just peace. Man, there's not a lot of gifts I'm going to buy in exchange for my wife's peace, for my peace. You see what I'm saying? Yeah. And then, by the way, once you get that peace, like George said, you don't owe anybody money. You can buy gifts for everybody.