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Dr. John Deloney

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
14606 total appearances

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The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

We can't live in this particular house or in this particular neighborhood.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

We can't live in this particular house or in this particular neighborhood.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Yeah, you keep crafting all these stories and imaginations like, well, it's probably because of this and maybe it's, but it doesn't matter. Just forget all the story parts. Just sit down and look at the woman that you've made humans with. Look at the woman that you said, I do, till death do us part. Like, what kind of life do we want to have?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Yeah, you keep crafting all these stories and imaginations like, well, it's probably because of this and maybe it's, but it doesn't matter. Just forget all the story parts. Just sit down and look at the woman that you've made humans with. Look at the woman that you said, I do, till death do us part. Like, what kind of life do we want to have?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Yeah, you keep crafting all these stories and imaginations like, well, it's probably because of this and maybe it's, but it doesn't matter. Just forget all the story parts. Just sit down and look at the woman that you've made humans with. Look at the woman that you said, I do, till death do us part. Like, what kind of life do we want to have?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

What do we want this house to feel like when we get home every day? How much are you making a year, James?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

What do we want this house to feel like when we get home every day? How much are you making a year, James?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

What do we want this house to feel like when we get home every day? How much are you making a year, James?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Or at least it involves y'all having to have a truthful conversation about, hey, what do I want? What do I really want? I really want to work at this job. I love my nonprofit work. And I know I make half of what I could make in the for-profit world, but I feel valued and loved here. And then your wife looks across the table and says, I really want to stay at home with our kids.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Or at least it involves y'all having to have a truthful conversation about, hey, what do I want? What do I really want? I really want to work at this job. I love my nonprofit work. And I know I make half of what I could make in the for-profit world, but I feel valued and loved here. And then your wife looks across the table and says, I really want to stay at home with our kids.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Or at least it involves y'all having to have a truthful conversation about, hey, what do I want? What do I really want? I really want to work at this job. I love my nonprofit work. And I know I make half of what I could make in the for-profit world, but I feel valued and loved here. And then your wife looks across the table and says, I really want to stay at home with our kids.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

I see what happens in daycares. I want to be with our kids. Okay, now we have a desires challenge. Both of us are being honest. Both of us on the table. Now we're just going to look at math does not care about what we want. Math is just math. So let's look at the math problem we have here.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

I see what happens in daycares. I want to be with our kids. Okay, now we have a desires challenge. Both of us are being honest. Both of us on the table. Now we're just going to look at math does not care about what we want. Math is just math. So let's look at the math problem we have here.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

I see what happens in daycares. I want to be with our kids. Okay, now we have a desires challenge. Both of us are being honest. Both of us on the table. Now we're just going to look at math does not care about what we want. Math is just math. So let's look at the math problem we have here.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

And maybe it's for three years, I'm going to stay at this nonprofit, but I'm going to work an extra job so that you can stay home because I know that's important to you. And maybe it's, you know what, for three years, I'm going to keep working at daycare because at least I get to see the kids half the day.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

And maybe it's for three years, I'm going to stay at this nonprofit, but I'm going to work an extra job so that you can stay home because I know that's important to you. And maybe it's, you know what, for three years, I'm going to keep working at daycare because at least I get to see the kids half the day.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

And maybe it's for three years, I'm going to stay at this nonprofit, but I'm going to work an extra job so that you can stay home because I know that's important to you. And maybe it's, you know what, for three years, I'm going to keep working at daycare because at least I get to see the kids half the day.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

And we're not netting a lot of new income, but this mission that you're called to at this nonprofit is really important. But now y'all are actually talking substantively. You're being honest with one another and you're putting your hearts and minds and souls on the table like you promised each other you would at your wedding. And your mother-in-law doesn't get a vote.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

And we're not netting a lot of new income, but this mission that you're called to at this nonprofit is really important. But now y'all are actually talking substantively. You're being honest with one another and you're putting your hearts and minds and souls on the table like you promised each other you would at your wedding. And your mother-in-law doesn't get a vote.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

And we're not netting a lot of new income, but this mission that you're called to at this nonprofit is really important. But now y'all are actually talking substantively. You're being honest with one another and you're putting your hearts and minds and souls on the table like you promised each other you would at your wedding. And your mother-in-law doesn't get a vote.