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Dr. John Deloney

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14606 total appearances

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The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

But right now when your wife says, well, my mom says that I, that's her knowing if I, she just tells you what she wants, you're going to blow by her with a spreadsheet. And when your wife says something and you go, well, it's just your mother-in-law speaking, that's you not being able to say, I really love my work. It means something to me. Do you get what I'm saying?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

But right now when your wife says, well, my mom says that I, that's her knowing if I, she just tells you what she wants, you're going to blow by her with a spreadsheet. And when your wife says something and you go, well, it's just your mother-in-law speaking, that's you not being able to say, I really love my work. It means something to me. Do you get what I'm saying?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

But right now when your wife says, well, my mom says that I, that's her knowing if I, she just tells you what she wants, you're going to blow by her with a spreadsheet. And when your wife says something and you go, well, it's just your mother-in-law speaking, that's you not being able to say, I really love my work. It means something to me. Do you get what I'm saying?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Let's just take mother-in-law out of the equation. Let's just talk directly with your wife. Is that possible? Yeah, yeah. Most of the time, you sound like a, actually you sound a lot like me, brother. You sound like a spreadsheet guy. You can pull up a spreadsheet and you can make the math work or you can be real honest about it not working.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Let's just take mother-in-law out of the equation. Let's just talk directly with your wife. Is that possible? Yeah, yeah. Most of the time, you sound like a, actually you sound a lot like me, brother. You sound like a spreadsheet guy. You can pull up a spreadsheet and you can make the math work or you can be real honest about it not working.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Let's just take mother-in-law out of the equation. Let's just talk directly with your wife. Is that possible? Yeah, yeah. Most of the time, you sound like a, actually you sound a lot like me, brother. You sound like a spreadsheet guy. You can pull up a spreadsheet and you can make the math work or you can be real honest about it not working.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

I want you to sit down with your wife and talk about emotions and feelings, which is maybe a scary thing. Here's how I feel about this. Here's what I want. I feel like your mother-in-law has a seat at our table, at dinner table. I feel like your mom has a seat in our bedroom. I don't want her in here anymore. I want it to be us. What world do we want to create?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

I want you to sit down with your wife and talk about emotions and feelings, which is maybe a scary thing. Here's how I feel about this. Here's what I want. I feel like your mother-in-law has a seat at our table, at dinner table. I feel like your mom has a seat in our bedroom. I don't want her in here anymore. I want it to be us. What world do we want to create?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

I want you to sit down with your wife and talk about emotions and feelings, which is maybe a scary thing. Here's how I feel about this. Here's what I want. I feel like your mother-in-law has a seat at our table, at dinner table. I feel like your mom has a seat in our bedroom. I don't want her in here anymore. I want it to be us. What world do we want to create?

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Thank you so much for the call, my brother. This is The Ramsey Show.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Thank you so much for the call, my brother. This is The Ramsey Show.

The Ramsey Show
Stop Letting Other People's Problems Ruin Your Finances

Thank you so much for the call, my brother. This is The Ramsey Show.

The Ramsey Show
You Don’t Need a Raise, You Need a Plan

Right.

The Ramsey Show
You Don’t Need a Raise, You Need a Plan

Right.

The Ramsey Show
You Don’t Need a Raise, You Need a Plan

Right.

The Ramsey Show
You Don’t Need a Raise, You Need a Plan

I agree. He needs to get over it.

The Ramsey Show
You Don’t Need a Raise, You Need a Plan

I agree. He needs to get over it.

The Ramsey Show
You Don’t Need a Raise, You Need a Plan

I agree. He needs to get over it.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Is your particular company that you work for, is that one of their just HR, like they just have a line that says we won't even talk to you? It's like their filtering system?

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Is your particular company that you work for, is that one of their just HR, like they just have a line that says we won't even talk to you? It's like their filtering system?