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Dr. John Deloney

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
14606 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

six months just hopefully like well you know like kind of just we just want to like kind of think through that's it's just a recipe for this thing ending up in ash the second piece is your health stuff so all i have to say is i would dave correct me if i'm wrong i'd pause everything and i would stockpile cash um i don't know what you're trying to accomplish with the separation again i want you guys to be very intentional is your did your wife move out because it's not safe to be around you

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

six months just hopefully like well you know like kind of just we just want to like kind of think through that's it's just a recipe for this thing ending up in ash the second piece is your health stuff so all i have to say is i would dave correct me if i'm wrong i'd pause everything and i would stockpile cash um i don't know what you're trying to accomplish with the separation again i want you guys to be very intentional is your did your wife move out because it's not safe to be around you

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

six months just hopefully like well you know like kind of just we just want to like kind of think through that's it's just a recipe for this thing ending up in ash the second piece is your health stuff so all i have to say is i would dave correct me if i'm wrong i'd pause everything and i would stockpile cash um i don't know what you're trying to accomplish with the separation again i want you guys to be very intentional is your did your wife move out because it's not safe to be around you

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Okay, does she have somebody else she wants to try dating for six months? No. Okay, then what is going to be accomplished?

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Okay, does she have somebody else she wants to try dating for six months? No. Okay, then what is going to be accomplished?

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Okay, does she have somebody else she wants to try dating for six months? No. Okay, then what is going to be accomplished?

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

And think of, I mean, for people listening, think about that kind of separation. I know it's easy to think, if I just had my own space, or if I just had this time, I'm just going to take six months to... Think about it like this. It's like you going and getting a gym membership. Like, are you going to lose weight? I don't know. I just don't know what I want.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

And think of, I mean, for people listening, think about that kind of separation. I know it's easy to think, if I just had my own space, or if I just had this time, I'm just going to take six months to... Think about it like this. It's like you going and getting a gym membership. Like, are you going to lose weight? I don't know. I just don't know what I want.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

And think of, I mean, for people listening, think about that kind of separation. I know it's easy to think, if I just had my own space, or if I just had this time, I'm just going to take six months to... Think about it like this. It's like you going and getting a gym membership. Like, are you going to lose weight? I don't know. I just don't know what I want.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

I'm just going to go walk around the gym, and I'll do a couple minutes on this thing, and then I'll get a smoothie, and then... You're going to walk out exactly the same person, except you're going to be minus your gym membership fees for six months. Be intentional.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

I'm just going to go walk around the gym, and I'll do a couple minutes on this thing, and then I'll get a smoothie, and then... You're going to walk out exactly the same person, except you're going to be minus your gym membership fees for six months. Be intentional.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

I'm just going to go walk around the gym, and I'll do a couple minutes on this thing, and then I'll get a smoothie, and then... You're going to walk out exactly the same person, except you're going to be minus your gym membership fees for six months. Be intentional.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

If you need to separate, have a very clear reason, a very clear timeline, and then a very clear set of action steps for what is going to be accomplished in this time we're apart, and then specifically how we're going to come back together and decide what we're doing next. But this, yeah, Dave, you're exactly right. This is a She's practicing being divorced.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

If you need to separate, have a very clear reason, a very clear timeline, and then a very clear set of action steps for what is going to be accomplished in this time we're apart, and then specifically how we're going to come back together and decide what we're doing next. But this, yeah, Dave, you're exactly right. This is a She's practicing being divorced.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

If you need to separate, have a very clear reason, a very clear timeline, and then a very clear set of action steps for what is going to be accomplished in this time we're apart, and then specifically how we're going to come back together and decide what we're doing next. But this, yeah, Dave, you're exactly right. This is a She's practicing being divorced.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

She's practicing what life is going to be like by herself on her own. Because she's had it. Yeah, how I can get my feet underneath me, and she just doesn't want to cut the ties just in case she needs a little more time. But that's exactly what this is. This isn't a, I want to see if I still want to be married. This is me practicing being divorced.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

She's practicing what life is going to be like by herself on her own. Because she's had it. Yeah, how I can get my feet underneath me, and she just doesn't want to cut the ties just in case she needs a little more time. But that's exactly what this is. This isn't a, I want to see if I still want to be married. This is me practicing being divorced.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

She's practicing what life is going to be like by herself on her own. Because she's had it. Yeah, how I can get my feet underneath me, and she just doesn't want to cut the ties just in case she needs a little more time. But that's exactly what this is. This isn't a, I want to see if I still want to be married. This is me practicing being divorced.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Yeah. And I'm seeing more and more, Dave, the answer to that question will be, well, I just don't know. I need more time, more time. And what's happening is in some states, whoever files has less of a of a stake in what happens, right? And the other person can claim, well, this is, he filed on me or she filed on me. And so there's kind of this push, like, I don't want to be the bad guy here.

The Ramsey Show
Slow and Steady Wins the Race Every Time

Yeah. And I'm seeing more and more, Dave, the answer to that question will be, well, I just don't know. I need more time, more time. And what's happening is in some states, whoever files has less of a of a stake in what happens, right? And the other person can claim, well, this is, he filed on me or she filed on me. And so there's kind of this push, like, I don't want to be the bad guy here.