Dr. John Deloney
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But what's the word used? What's the directive in Scripture?
But what's the word used? What's the directive in Scripture?
Maybe the greatest gift George and I could give you today is there's no path forward for you that's not going to be uncomfortable. And so using discomfort as the barometer for what's a right move and what's a not right move is the wrong barometer.
Maybe the greatest gift George and I could give you today is there's no path forward for you that's not going to be uncomfortable. And so using discomfort as the barometer for what's a right move and what's a not right move is the wrong barometer.
Maybe the greatest gift George and I could give you today is there's no path forward for you that's not going to be uncomfortable. And so using discomfort as the barometer for what's a right move and what's a not right move is the wrong barometer.
Okay. So can you – is it honoring your mother to continue to feed – to hand her cash to that she is going to use to make herself less and less and less well?
Okay. So can you – is it honoring your mother to continue to feed – to hand her cash to that she is going to use to make herself less and less and less well?
Okay. So can you – is it honoring your mother to continue to feed – to hand her cash to that she is going to use to make herself less and less and less well?
Or is honoring her, is honoring your mother, having an honest, direct conversation about boundaries, about if you want my money and I'll be willing to help in this particular way, then so be it. Or is honoring saying honestly and with integrity, I'm still too hurt from how we grew up. And at this time, not that I can't because that's not honest. I'm choosing to not give you cash.
Or is honoring her, is honoring your mother, having an honest, direct conversation about boundaries, about if you want my money and I'll be willing to help in this particular way, then so be it. Or is honoring saying honestly and with integrity, I'm still too hurt from how we grew up. And at this time, not that I can't because that's not honest. I'm choosing to not give you cash.
Or is honoring her, is honoring your mother, having an honest, direct conversation about boundaries, about if you want my money and I'll be willing to help in this particular way, then so be it. Or is honoring saying honestly and with integrity, I'm still too hurt from how we grew up. And at this time, not that I can't because that's not honest. I'm choosing to not give you cash.
You know what I'm saying? Honor does not mean you have to do whatever somebody else tells you to do forever and ever. Amen. Regardless of it. That's not what honoring means.
You know what I'm saying? Honor does not mean you have to do whatever somebody else tells you to do forever and ever. Amen. Regardless of it. That's not what honoring means.
You know what I'm saying? Honor does not mean you have to do whatever somebody else tells you to do forever and ever. Amen. Regardless of it. That's not what honoring means.
But also sometimes honoring is uncomfortable.
But also sometimes honoring is uncomfortable.
But also sometimes honoring is uncomfortable.
And let's ask that question because we get that, George and I get that a lot. Do you even have the money to give her?
And let's ask that question because we get that, George and I get that a lot. Do you even have the money to give her?
And let's ask that question because we get that, George and I get that a lot. Do you even have the money to give her?