Dr. John Deloney
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And honoring doesn't always mean everyone's going to like you.
And honoring doesn't always mean everyone's going to like you.
And honoring doesn't always mean everyone's going to like you.
I think you're on the right path, Laura. We can't make this call for you, but it sounds like you know the next right move. And sometimes the next right move is scary and really hard, too.
I think you're on the right path, Laura. We can't make this call for you, but it sounds like you know the next right move. And sometimes the next right move is scary and really hard, too.
I think you're on the right path, Laura. We can't make this call for you, but it sounds like you know the next right move. And sometimes the next right move is scary and really hard, too.
I know it didn't make you feel any better, but people are getting scammed right and left all over the world, man. I'm sorry.
I know it didn't make you feel any better, but people are getting scammed right and left all over the world, man. I'm sorry.
I know it didn't make you feel any better, but people are getting scammed right and left all over the world, man. I'm sorry.
I think you have to go in... When everything feels overwhelming, I think you have to go in a particular order and go slower than you think. Here's what I mean. In your guts, you want vengeance. You want to find out who hurt you, who weaponized what you thought was a new friendship, especially on the back end of a divorce when things are tough.
I think you have to go in... When everything feels overwhelming, I think you have to go in a particular order and go slower than you think. Here's what I mean. In your guts, you want vengeance. You want to find out who hurt you, who weaponized what you thought was a new friendship, especially on the back end of a divorce when things are tough.
I think you have to go in... When everything feels overwhelming, I think you have to go in a particular order and go slower than you think. Here's what I mean. In your guts, you want vengeance. You want to find out who hurt you, who weaponized what you thought was a new friendship, especially on the back end of a divorce when things are tough.
Somebody weaponized what I think is the most sacred thing, and that's a relationship. And... And then inside that relationship, somebody asked you for help, and you're the kind of guy that helps. And that hurts, man. I feel like I was financially raped. Fair enough. And so you want to go get all that money back. Your car transmission doesn't care about that.
Somebody weaponized what I think is the most sacred thing, and that's a relationship. And... And then inside that relationship, somebody asked you for help, and you're the kind of guy that helps. And that hurts, man. I feel like I was financially raped. Fair enough. And so you want to go get all that money back. Your car transmission doesn't care about that.
Somebody weaponized what I think is the most sacred thing, and that's a relationship. And... And then inside that relationship, somebody asked you for help, and you're the kind of guy that helps. And that hurts, man. I feel like I was financially raped. Fair enough. And so you want to go get all that money back. Your car transmission doesn't care about that.
And so while this, I want to get it back, I want to find the guy, I'm calling all the people. That's front and center in your guts. You feel that really heavy when we're hurt like this and it feels overwhelming. It's important to feel that feeling and then go do the next right thing. And in your case, we just got to start again financially. And it sounds caustic, but there's not another option.
And so while this, I want to get it back, I want to find the guy, I'm calling all the people. That's front and center in your guts. You feel that really heavy when we're hurt like this and it feels overwhelming. It's important to feel that feeling and then go do the next right thing. And in your case, we just got to start again financially. And it sounds caustic, but there's not another option.
And so while this, I want to get it back, I want to find the guy, I'm calling all the people. That's front and center in your guts. You feel that really heavy when we're hurt like this and it feels overwhelming. It's important to feel that feeling and then go do the next right thing. And in your case, we just got to start again financially. And it sounds caustic, but there's not another option.
And so here's the good news. You have $150,000. Yes. You didn't wipe it out. So we're going to start building it back. We're going to get an emergency fund built up. So we're our own bank. And so when our car goes, we're going to be a couple of years away from getting the big, nice truck we wanted. Cool.