Dr. John Deloney
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That's the world they want to have, but they don't have enough money to do that. What's their house worth?
So what are you asking us about your situation?
So what are you asking us about your situation?
So what are you asking us about your situation?
Dealing with reality is hard, man. Nobody wants this, but this is just where we find ourselves.
Dealing with reality is hard, man. Nobody wants this, but this is just where we find ourselves.
Dealing with reality is hard, man. Nobody wants this, but this is just where we find ourselves.
That's not where the problem lies. Here's the problem number one. You don't even know how bad this is. And until you both sit down and pull credit reports and you actually have real data in front of you, pull all three of them. And you look and see who do you owe money to. And here's why you have to do it that way because you don't trust him because he keeps lying to you.
That's not where the problem lies. Here's the problem number one. You don't even know how bad this is. And until you both sit down and pull credit reports and you actually have real data in front of you, pull all three of them. And you look and see who do you owe money to. And here's why you have to do it that way because you don't trust him because he keeps lying to you.
That's not where the problem lies. Here's the problem number one. You don't even know how bad this is. And until you both sit down and pull credit reports and you actually have real data in front of you, pull all three of them. And you look and see who do you owe money to. And here's why you have to do it that way because you don't trust him because he keeps lying to you.
He keeps telling you, no, this is it. And you find out there's a couch note. And then you find out there's another note. And here's the second problem. You tell him, hey, I'm so scared about our financial future. You know how you say those words to him? You're stupid. This plan doesn't work. Why don't you budget? You don't say those. Instead, you say, I'm scared. Instead, you say, I'm scared.
He keeps telling you, no, this is it. And you find out there's a couch note. And then you find out there's another note. And here's the second problem. You tell him, hey, I'm so scared about our financial future. You know how you say those words to him? You're stupid. This plan doesn't work. Why don't you budget? You don't say those. Instead, you say, I'm scared. Instead, you say, I'm scared.
He keeps telling you, no, this is it. And you find out there's a couch note. And then you find out there's another note. And here's the second problem. You tell him, hey, I'm so scared about our financial future. You know how you say those words to him? You're stupid. This plan doesn't work. Why don't you budget? You don't say those. Instead, you say, I'm scared. Instead, you say, I'm scared.
That's the way you talk to him. Hey, this is a dumb idea. And he doesn't hear that. He thinks, nope, you're dumb. And then he's hiding couch receipts somewhere. Instead of you saying, do you love me? Because if you do, I'm so, so scared about what happens next for us.
That's the way you talk to him. Hey, this is a dumb idea. And he doesn't hear that. He thinks, nope, you're dumb. And then he's hiding couch receipts somewhere. Instead of you saying, do you love me? Because if you do, I'm so, so scared about what happens next for us.
That's the way you talk to him. Hey, this is a dumb idea. And he doesn't hear that. He thinks, nope, you're dumb. And then he's hiding couch receipts somewhere. Instead of you saying, do you love me? Because if you do, I'm so, so scared about what happens next for us.
Let him see this right here.
Let him see this right here.
Let him see this right here.
Are some of your tears coming because you know that there's much more to come here?