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Smart Money Decisions Often Mean Sacrificing Today for Tomorrow

Fri, 02 May 2025

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Chapter 1: How can we handle debts when dissolving a family business?

69.862 - 81.748 Robert

So the business is a split between my mother-in-law, father-in-law, my sister-in-law and her husband, and my wife and I. It's not exactly one-third all the way around, but it's pretty close.

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82.889 - 84.77 Jade Warshaw

Okay, so what percentage do you own?

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86.571 - 88.131 Robert

My wife and I own 30% together.

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89.152 - 91.673 Jade Warshaw

Okay, and what is the nature of the $160,000 in debt? What kind of debt?

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94.441 - 122.431 Robert

So we're going to owe about $21,500 in the next six months of rent to our lease agreement with the landlord. We owe $74,500 approximately through a PPP loan. Thanks, COVID, for making things difficult, of course. And then the last part is about $70,000 that my father-in-law, when we initially purchased the business, he fronted that through his retirement account account.

123.499 - 134.626 Robert

taking a loan on his IRA or something like that. And even though that part's not, you know, like legally actionable debt, I think it's morally and ethically the right thing to do to pay him back as well.

134.806 - 137.168 Jade Warshaw

Right. What percentage of the business does he own?

139.409 - 144.132 Robert

He and his wife together own 40% with my sister-in-law having the last 30%.

144.212 - 156.739 Dave Ramsey

So the 160 of debt, is that 30% of the overall debt or is that, Is there more debt besides that, is what I'm asking, that others are on the hook for?

Chapter 2: Is our mortgage too high at 50% of our income?

1427.489 - 1428.609 Jade Warshaw

So what do you guys make?

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1431.757 - 1435.38 Jerry

We take home $11,250 after taxes a month.

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1435.921 - 1450.335 Jade Warshaw

And do you think your income's going to double in the next year? No. Then don't do this deal. It's really, it's asinine. You are signing up, you're playing, you're signing up for financial suicide.

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1452.955 - 1472.588 Dave Ramsey

The truth is, and earlier in the show, we had Brian Buffini on and we were talking about this very thing, okay? Real estate, I get it. It feels very expensive. Sometimes it feels out of touch. Sometimes it feels like it'll never happen. But that's not true. However, your time horizon for when it will happen may be different from what you expect.

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1472.628 - 1474.59 Jade Warshaw

And your neighborhood might be different from what you expect.

1474.61 - 1477.031 Dave Ramsey

That's also true. You said it's a very hot neighborhood.

1477.271 - 1480.974 Jade Warshaw

You may not be moving into that neighborhood. You obviously can't afford it.

1482.6 - 1495.931 Dave Ramsey

So what would it look like to look in a different neighborhood or what would it look like to just change your expectation a little bit? Because to put yourself in a situation where you're at 50 percent for you to be trying to convince us that that's a good idea.

1495.951 - 1512.499 Jade Warshaw

It's not sustainable. You know, everything that comes up, because you don't leave enough room in your budget because you're what we call house poor. You're signing up for poverty. And everything that comes up that you guys want to do or need to do that you don't have room for in the budget is going to be new debt.

Chapter 3: Do we really need a credit card at some point?

Chapter 4: Is it okay to enjoy money while still young?

1362.657 - 1375.543 Jerry

But I guess we're just in two separate minds about do we take the plunge now or wait a year and then maybe the price goes up even further and then, you know, we're just stuck in the apartment.

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1375.903 - 1379.125 Dave Ramsey

Why did you say it would only be that much for the first three or four years?

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1380.521 - 1387.484 Jerry

Depending on how the loan is working out. So we're doing the 2-1 option.

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1387.544 - 1394.686 Jade Warshaw

So this is not only 45%, it's an adjustable rate 30-year mortgage.

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1396.307 - 1403.87 Jerry

Right. So if you're taking the average, I guess, from the third year onwards is going to be... You don't have any idea.

1403.89 - 1411.044 Jade Warshaw

Yeah. It's called an adjustable rate mortgage. Yes. It's going to adjust. You don't even know.

1411.864 - 1411.844 Robert

28.

1414.865 - 1419.486 Dave Ramsey

What's on fire, dude, that would cause you to be this stupid? Yes.

1420.086 - 1427.449 Jerry

What Dave said. No, no. The mortgage is going to be $5,200 after the third year for the next 30 years.

Chapter 5: What should we do if our landlord becomes hostile?

Chapter 6: When is an emergency fund no longer necessary?

166.943 - 168.903 Jade Warshaw

That's his percentage, it turns out.

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170.084 - 171.824 Robert

Right, right.

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172.045 - 185.035 Jade Warshaw

So if he just took his percentage against his retirement and called it, he's out. Right. And I suggested that to him as well as a possible course of action. Well, it's the natural thing to do mathematically.

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185.315 - 188.121 Dave Ramsey

Yeah. Why would you be on the hook for 100% of the debt if you own 30% of the business?

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190.359 - 210.048 Jade Warshaw

Yeah, he's on the hook for 40% of the debt, and 40% of the debt is to him. So that's just a wash. I mean, it may be a little bit off. There may be a few thousand dollars. It could be like $5,000 off, but it's pretty close. Okay. Then you've got the PPP and you've got the rent. Have you all tried to negotiate with the landlord at all on the final rent?

211.278 - 234.857 Robert

Actually, I got notice about an hour ago that he's willing to do a little bit of negotiation, so we might be able to knock that number down significantly. Oh, good. That does change the formula with his father-in-law then. Yeah, yeah. And like I said, the last wrench in the gear here is that my wife has that PPP loan that's almost $75,000. She is the sole guarantor on that. Holy crap. Yeah. Yeah.

235.643 - 241.329 Robert

Yeah, so she did it in the name of the business, but she only used herself on the math.

242.69 - 242.99 Ava

Wow.

243.631 - 268.841 Jade Warshaw

And you own 30%. Yeah, and that doesn't equal 74. Okay, so yeah, depending on, okay, the total is going to change when the rent changes. So 40% changes, and it's not going to be enough to cover father-in-law. So his is not going to be a wash as the rent goes down. You follow me on the math equation?

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