Dr. John Deloney
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Here's the deal. I don't understand what you're asking. How can I, how can I help? Because here's the deal. You don't want professional help because you're cynical of it. You don't want to get re-diagnosed, but you do want to diagnose yourself. You don't want to get away from some of this toxic behavior that you grew up with, yet you want to live with your dad.
Here's the deal. I don't understand what you're asking. How can I, how can I help? Because here's the deal. You don't want professional help because you're cynical of it. You don't want to get re-diagnosed, but you do want to diagnose yourself. You don't want to get away from some of this toxic behavior that you grew up with, yet you want to live with your dad.
Here's the deal. I don't understand what you're asking. How can I, how can I help? Because here's the deal. You don't want professional help because you're cynical of it. You don't want to get re-diagnosed, but you do want to diagnose yourself. You don't want to get away from some of this toxic behavior that you grew up with, yet you want to live with your dad.
You want to be secure with money as a 30-year-old, yet you still feel compelled to fund his life. All these are choices you're allowed to make. You're a grown adult. But I'm trying to walk you through each one of them and see where they're not in alignment with what you're telling me you want your life to look like. And so how can I help?
You want to be secure with money as a 30-year-old, yet you still feel compelled to fund his life. All these are choices you're allowed to make. You're a grown adult. But I'm trying to walk you through each one of them and see where they're not in alignment with what you're telling me you want your life to look like. And so how can I help?
You want to be secure with money as a 30-year-old, yet you still feel compelled to fund his life. All these are choices you're allowed to make. You're a grown adult. But I'm trying to walk you through each one of them and see where they're not in alignment with what you're telling me you want your life to look like. And so how can I help?
How can I help?
How can I help?
How can I help?
Move away. Get a job and move away. Branch away and become independent. Get a one-bedroom apartment and say, Dad, in two months I'm going to be out here on my own because it's time for me to be a 30-year-old man all by myself.
Move away. Get a job and move away. Branch away and become independent. Get a one-bedroom apartment and say, Dad, in two months I'm going to be out here on my own because it's time for me to be a 30-year-old man all by myself.
Move away. Get a job and move away. Branch away and become independent. Get a one-bedroom apartment and say, Dad, in two months I'm going to be out here on my own because it's time for me to be a 30-year-old man all by myself.
And yes, we need people to pick us up when we fall. And that's awesome. And then we got to go take the next step. That's confidence. That's where you get confidence.
And yes, we need people to pick us up when we fall. And that's awesome. And then we got to go take the next step. That's confidence. That's where you get confidence.
And yes, we need people to pick us up when we fall. And that's awesome. And then we got to go take the next step. That's confidence. That's where you get confidence.
And you can't say, I need some help, I want some guidance, but I don't want to take help and I don't want to take guidance. Those two things are incompatible together. So either you have the courage and the humility to say, I don't know how to do what comes next. I'm going to go sit down with a professional. I'm going to go talk to an investment professional.
And you can't say, I need some help, I want some guidance, but I don't want to take help and I don't want to take guidance. Those two things are incompatible together. So either you have the courage and the humility to say, I don't know how to do what comes next. I'm going to go sit down with a professional. I'm going to go talk to an investment professional.
And you can't say, I need some help, I want some guidance, but I don't want to take help and I don't want to take guidance. Those two things are incompatible together. So either you have the courage and the humility to say, I don't know how to do what comes next. I'm going to go sit down with a professional. I'm going to go talk to an investment professional.
I'm going to go talk to a mental health professional. I'm going to talk to somebody to walk me through this. Cool. Or I'm just going to keep staying in the same situation. At the end of the day, I'll give you a quote from my friend Michael Easter. Do something. Do something that is different from the situation you're in right now. Otherwise, everything will stay the same except it will degrade.
I'm going to go talk to a mental health professional. I'm going to talk to somebody to walk me through this. Cool. Or I'm just going to keep staying in the same situation. At the end of the day, I'll give you a quote from my friend Michael Easter. Do something. Do something that is different from the situation you're in right now. Otherwise, everything will stay the same except it will degrade.