Dr. John Delony

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AMA episode 900.

No.

We have like 17 associate producers.

Yeah.

Either that says something about me or you.

Oh, that's tough.

That's one of those things that is often gendered in the research.

The old saying goes, and I haven't read this research recently, but the older research was, if a wife told her husband...

I'm having an affair, his first question would be, did you sleep with him?

And if a husband told his wife, I'm having an affair, her first question would be, do you love her?

And so I think it depends on who you are and what I always will, my default is a physical affairs worse, but that can be a very gendered because I'm a dude and that might be why I have that same bias.

I think both of them can be pretty destructive.

And also, because I get this question all the time, with 100% certainty, couples can come back from affairs too, emotional and physical and otherwise.

What do you think, Kelly?