Dr. John Gottman
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That's a friendship that is very palpable.
And put downs. It's that counterattack. I think one of the other things is that what makes this show so important to people all around the world is that they feel the love and they see the hostility and put downs. They see both at the same time.
And put downs. It's that counterattack. I think one of the other things is that what makes this show so important to people all around the world is that they feel the love and they see the hostility and put downs. They see both at the same time.
And put downs. It's that counterattack. I think one of the other things is that what makes this show so important to people all around the world is that they feel the love and they see the hostility and put downs. They see both at the same time.
And it's a very powerful thing because here you are having all this love for one another and yet pushing each other away and then coming back together and pushing each other away. So it's a very powerful dynamic.
And it's a very powerful thing because here you are having all this love for one another and yet pushing each other away and then coming back together and pushing each other away. So it's a very powerful dynamic.
And it's a very powerful thing because here you are having all this love for one another and yet pushing each other away and then coming back together and pushing each other away. So it's a very powerful dynamic.
If I'm going to be honest, there's a lot about you that annoys me.
If I'm going to be honest, there's a lot about you that annoys me.
If I'm going to be honest, there's a lot about you that annoys me.
Okay. So when you go on about Italy and wines and all the things you know, it makes me feel insulted. Like, you know, like my father was a microbiologist. My mother was a great lawyer. This is scary.
Okay. So when you go on about Italy and wines and all the things you know, it makes me feel insulted. Like, you know, like my father was a microbiologist. My mother was a great lawyer. This is scary.
Okay. So when you go on about Italy and wines and all the things you know, it makes me feel insulted. Like, you know, like my father was a microbiologist. My mother was a great lawyer. This is scary.
And I, you know, I felt put down at the table all the time. at the dinner table. Really? And so when you expound, you know, my father's a learned man, you know, and how could I, you know, match him? So I kind of feel that way when you go on about wines or how things are pronounced in ancient Greece.
And I, you know, I felt put down at the table all the time. at the dinner table. Really? And so when you expound, you know, my father's a learned man, you know, and how could I, you know, match him? So I kind of feel that way when you go on about wines or how things are pronounced in ancient Greece.
And I, you know, I felt put down at the table all the time. at the dinner table. Really? And so when you expound, you know, my father's a learned man, you know, and how could I, you know, match him? So I kind of feel that way when you go on about wines or how things are pronounced in ancient Greece.
Maybe ask me if I want to hear what you have to say. There's a plan.
Maybe ask me if I want to hear what you have to say. There's a plan.
Maybe ask me if I want to hear what you have to say. There's a plan.
Like if you want to expound about something, ask me if I want to hear it. Okay. If I want to hear it, then, you know, great.