Dr. John Gottman

I was thinking of this couple where her husband got very upset and said to his wife, Joyce, do you think you're better than me? And she said, better than I. Oh, yes.

I was thinking of this couple where her husband got very upset and said to his wife, Joyce, do you think you're better than me? And she said, better than I. Oh, yes.

I was thinking of this couple where her husband got very upset and said to his wife, Joyce, do you think you're better than me? And she said, better than I. Oh, yes.

So that's information, but in the context, it comes off as contempt.

So that's information, but in the context, it comes off as contempt.

So that's information, but in the context, it comes off as contempt.

I was thinking about. Can I finish? Sure.

I was thinking about. Can I finish? Sure.

I was thinking about. Can I finish? Sure.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

In fact, I was really moved by your story of how when you were at Harvard, and you went along with your friend to the Harvard Lampoon, you really found yourself. I did. You really found, you know, humor as a way of really expressing who you are.

In fact, I was really moved by your story of how when you were at Harvard, and you went along with your friend to the Harvard Lampoon, you really found yourself. I did. You really found, you know, humor as a way of really expressing who you are.

In fact, I was really moved by your story of how when you were at Harvard, and you went along with your friend to the Harvard Lampoon, you really found yourself. I did. You really found, you know, humor as a way of really expressing who you are.

But sometimes it's like the shield that Julie was just talking about. Sometimes humor itself is like a shield. I mean, it's a wonderful gift, obviously, you know, and it's a great talent you have with humor. But sometimes it also blocks out the love.

But sometimes it's like the shield that Julie was just talking about. Sometimes humor itself is like a shield. I mean, it's a wonderful gift, obviously, you know, and it's a great talent you have with humor. But sometimes it also blocks out the love.

But sometimes it's like the shield that Julie was just talking about. Sometimes humor itself is like a shield. I mean, it's a wonderful gift, obviously, you know, and it's a great talent you have with humor. But sometimes it also blocks out the love.

That's a friendship that is very palpable.

That's a friendship that is very palpable.