Dr. John Gottman
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Well, it beeps, but it gives an alarm.
Well, it beeps, but it gives an alarm.
Well, the problem arises when it becomes non-adaptive, which means that it's a chronic elevation. I see. If it's there all the time, then it kind of spirals down. I understand. And neither one of you then can really ask one another for what you really need. Right. And that's part of what we want to help you do.
Well, the problem arises when it becomes non-adaptive, which means that it's a chronic elevation. I see. If it's there all the time, then it kind of spirals down. I understand. And neither one of you then can really ask one another for what you really need. Right. And that's part of what we want to help you do.
Well, the problem arises when it becomes non-adaptive, which means that it's a chronic elevation. I see. If it's there all the time, then it kind of spirals down. I understand. And neither one of you then can really ask one another for what you really need. Right. And that's part of what we want to help you do.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's a bad way to express concern.
That's a bad way to express concern.
That's a bad way to express concern.
You know, I'm not sure that's true because people love you.
You know, I'm not sure that's true because people love you.
You know, I'm not sure that's true because people love you.
Well, the problem is that the person who's contemptuous, that person's immune system also degrades over time. Right.
Well, the problem is that the person who's contemptuous, that person's immune system also degrades over time. Right.
Well, the problem is that the person who's contemptuous, that person's immune system also degrades over time. Right.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.