Dr. John Gottman
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In fact, I was really moved by your story of how when you were at Harvard, and you went along with your friend to the Harvard Lampoon, you really found yourself. I did. You really found, you know, humor as a way of really expressing who you are.
In fact, I was really moved by your story of how when you were at Harvard, and you went along with your friend to the Harvard Lampoon, you really found yourself. I did. You really found, you know, humor as a way of really expressing who you are.
But sometimes it's like the shield that Julie was just talking about. Sometimes humor itself is like a shield. I mean, it's a wonderful gift, obviously, you know, and it's a great talent you have with humor. But sometimes it also blocks out the love.
But sometimes it's like the shield that Julie was just talking about. Sometimes humor itself is like a shield. I mean, it's a wonderful gift, obviously, you know, and it's a great talent you have with humor. But sometimes it also blocks out the love.
But sometimes it's like the shield that Julie was just talking about. Sometimes humor itself is like a shield. I mean, it's a wonderful gift, obviously, you know, and it's a great talent you have with humor. But sometimes it also blocks out the love.
That's a friendship that is very palpable.
That's a friendship that is very palpable.
That's a friendship that is very palpable.
And put downs. It's that counterattack. I think one of the other things is that what makes this show so important to people all around the world is that they feel the love and they see the hostility and put downs. They see both at the same time.
And put downs. It's that counterattack. I think one of the other things is that what makes this show so important to people all around the world is that they feel the love and they see the hostility and put downs. They see both at the same time.
And put downs. It's that counterattack. I think one of the other things is that what makes this show so important to people all around the world is that they feel the love and they see the hostility and put downs. They see both at the same time.
And it's a very powerful thing because here you are having all this love for one another and yet pushing each other away and then coming back together and pushing each other away. So it's a very powerful dynamic.
And it's a very powerful thing because here you are having all this love for one another and yet pushing each other away and then coming back together and pushing each other away. So it's a very powerful dynamic.
And it's a very powerful thing because here you are having all this love for one another and yet pushing each other away and then coming back together and pushing each other away. So it's a very powerful dynamic.
If I'm going to be honest, there's a lot about you that annoys me.
If I'm going to be honest, there's a lot about you that annoys me.
If I'm going to be honest, there's a lot about you that annoys me.
Okay. So when you go on about Italy and wines and all the things you know, it makes me feel insulted. Like, you know, like my father was a microbiologist. My mother was a great lawyer. This is scary.
Okay. So when you go on about Italy and wines and all the things you know, it makes me feel insulted. Like, you know, like my father was a microbiologist. My mother was a great lawyer. This is scary.
Okay. So when you go on about Italy and wines and all the things you know, it makes me feel insulted. Like, you know, like my father was a microbiologist. My mother was a great lawyer. This is scary.