Dr. Julie Gottman
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All right.
So this is predictive of going down.
Let me finish.
I'm not going to let you finish.
You're such a slob that, you know, I can't even walk through the living room.
And I need therapy just to live with you.
I don't even want to talk about this anymore.
Oh, you ain't seen nothing.
That could be worse.
I once had somebody who was so upset, so flooded, and she was all of about 4'10", and her husband was 6'5", and had cheated on her, etc.
So I tried to calm her down.
She finally sat down on the couch, and my couch was a beautiful red leather, gorgeous couch.
When she left, there were scratch marks on the couch.
That, that can be.
I bet her heart rate was up.
I bet it was.
So you, you, you, you.
That's all he was saying.
And of course, I got defensive and I counterattacked.
That's a classic form of defensiveness.