Dr. K
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Yeah.
Everyone's talking about masculinity now.
And so like you have to lean into who you are.
Mm-hmm.
That's how you're going to be great.
Yeah.
Can't live anybody else's life.
Stop trying.
Okay.
Thanks, man.
It's good and bad.
Every parent messes up their child.
But the cool thing is at some point you become an adult and at some point you get to determine what kind of life you want to live.
And evolution does not select for happiness.
It selects for survival.
There are some situations where absolutely you can make an argument that sociopathy and narcissism will help people become successful.
But that doesn't mean that the average sociopath or narcissist is doing well.
So I don't think you need to be an a**hole.
The first is that if you can control yourself, you can get really far.
A lot of people think that they need to drastically change their life.