Dr. K
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Yeah.
Everyone's talking about masculinity now.
And so like you have to lean into who you are.
Mm-hmm.
That's how you're going to be great.
Yeah.
Can't live anybody else's life.
Stop trying.
Okay.
Thanks, man.
Yeah.
There's this idea of chasing delayed gratification.
So I'm gonna sacrifice today to be happy tomorrow.
That too doesn't really work because oftentimes what ends up happening is people move the goalposts.
So it's like then the next thing and then the next thing and then the next thing and when is it enough?
So some people go through life
forgetting how to enjoy themselves because there's this idea that I'll retire and then I'll have a good time.
I'm going to trade the best 40 years of my life between the ages of 20 and 60 to have 10 years at the end where I've got, I need a hip replacement, but I can travel the world.
So there's this delayed gratification, which is still just chasing pleasure.
So the real antidote to that is dharma.