Dr. K

Yeah, that's good.

You poor guys.

Yeah.

Right?

And so this is important to understand.

Negative emotions are the most powerful motivators.

That's why everyone wants to get rid of them because usually they motivate us in a way that we're not happy with.

This is what I mean about being broken in the right way.

So when you feel insufficient, when you feel invisible –

You're the lucky person because the way you're going to deal with that is you're going to be visible.

You're going to show them, right?

But some people are unlucky because when they're invisible, they accept it.

They're more spiritually developed than you are and they learn acceptance.

Okay, now I'm going to be – they become resigned, right?

So maybe the influence of your father is important here because they didn't have the modeling.

So I've been working with someone recently who –

It's really hard because they have taught themselves, and this is happening really a lot, they've taught themselves how to stop wanting.

Because when they want, they get disappointed.

So there is an adaptation that protects them from disappointment.

You don't wanna be disappointed, right, Raj?