Dr. K

And like, I think I'm a pretty good dad, but I'm not like the best dad.

I'm way better as Dr. K. And like my kids, you know, here I am like, oh, Raj, I think you should do whatever makes you happy, bro.

But when my kid gets a B, it's like, uh-uh.

Right?

All you have to be is the best.

So I think the other sad thing is that I think oftentimes people who really

use a lot of cognitive load.

To be an inspiring leader every day at work takes a lot of neuro resources.

So I think my family definitely gets the worst version of me.

And that's really common, right?

So my family doesn't get Dr. K, they get All Oak.

And like, thank God for that.

Like I think if my family would be completely messed up if they got Dr. K.

And I realized this some time ago that my kids don't need a sannyasi as a dad.

That's not right.

And so I don't force meditation on them in a way that sometimes I wonder if I'm doing them a disservice.

Because I'll see other dads that are forcing meditation on their kids.

So I kind of teach them what they're excited to learn.

We do some amount of stuff, but...

I think it's absolutely true that you put on a mask when you go to work and you take the mask when you go home.