Dr. K

So there must be a time in your life where there was like a particular moment where you like, one of your cousins did something and then you felt like, I'm not like that.

You know what I mean?

I was just left out, like I was unnoticed.

Yeah.

So this is what's really scary about that.

So first of all, I think the people who watch this podcast will feel that.

Like I get the hair on my arms is like standing up.

I'm getting goosebumps hearing that story.

We talk about like trauma is like bad things, right?

So like I've had patients who've been physically abused and sexually abused, but like to be invisible.

Yeah.

Right?

And people are, I'm glad you mentioned that they consoled number three, because you'd think that people would be happy to be number three, right?

So here's the scary thing.

No one in that situation is happy.

Not even number one.

Right?

So number one is like, yeah, I got number one today, but number two's right there.

I don't want to be number two next time.

So this is what's really scary is like, everyone's like, okay, I want to be number one.