Dr. K
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No, no.
So I needed to accomplish it, right?
So goals are necessary, but we don't need to get attached to them.
We don't need to get hung up.
They're necessary steps, just like packing.
I have to pack.
But you weren't attached to the result.
I wasn't attached to the result.
If you became a doctor or not, you weren't attached.
Yeah, well, I mean, I was attached, but I tried really hard not to be.
Gotcha.
Right?
And that's why I never looked at my grades.
I was like, okay, I'm gonna like, someone will tell me if I fail.
Like I'll get an email if I fail and I didn't fail, so whatever.
I'm focusing on learning the material.
That's good.
Right?
So I know it's, I love that you're asking these questions because it's so counterintuitive from the way that we think.
Here's the reason that detachment from our goals is really, we want goals, we wanna be detached.