Dr. Kelly Brogan

So you could argue my credentials, for example, are one of the ways that I have secured approval, even as I've stirred the pot in terms of controversy and other ways that I've been challenging, pushing the envelope, so to speak. But that approval will take you to a place where you're watching right, in this dissociated way, you're watching what you are achieving.

You're watching what you're securing. You're watching what the many products of your efforts. You're not actually there. Like you're not actually the one experiencing this. And so probably the place where this often comes home to roost is in our relationships and specifically romantic relationships and partnerships and marriages, right, where you can

You're watching what you're securing. You're watching what the many products of your efforts. You're not actually there. Like you're not actually the one experiencing this. And so probably the place where this often comes home to roost is in our relationships and specifically romantic relationships and partnerships and marriages, right, where you can

You're watching what you're securing. You're watching what the many products of your efforts. You're not actually there. Like you're not actually the one experiencing this. And so probably the place where this often comes home to roost is in our relationships and specifically romantic relationships and partnerships and marriages, right, where you can

you can find yourself really at that glass wall of intimacy and recognize that there's like a yearning in your heart for something different and just have no idea like how it is. How do you penetrate the glass? Like, how do you get to the other side? How do you touch someone's, skin through that kind of a barrier. And I guess the moment that you recognize it's an inside job, it's up to you.

you can find yourself really at that glass wall of intimacy and recognize that there's like a yearning in your heart for something different and just have no idea like how it is. How do you penetrate the glass? Like, how do you get to the other side? How do you touch someone's, skin through that kind of a barrier. And I guess the moment that you recognize it's an inside job, it's up to you.

you can find yourself really at that glass wall of intimacy and recognize that there's like a yearning in your heart for something different and just have no idea like how it is. How do you penetrate the glass? Like, how do you get to the other side? How do you touch someone's, skin through that kind of a barrier. And I guess the moment that you recognize it's an inside job, it's up to you.

Nobody else can deliver you there. And your partner doesn't have to change. Your employees and your job doesn't have to change. There's no amount of money you can manifest that's ever going to make this feel better that you finally get to that place where you're like, all right, I'm ready to roll up my sleeves and take responsibility for my experience as an embodied woman.

Nobody else can deliver you there. And your partner doesn't have to change. Your employees and your job doesn't have to change. There's no amount of money you can manifest that's ever going to make this feel better that you finally get to that place where you're like, all right, I'm ready to roll up my sleeves and take responsibility for my experience as an embodied woman.

Nobody else can deliver you there. And your partner doesn't have to change. Your employees and your job doesn't have to change. There's no amount of money you can manifest that's ever going to make this feel better that you finally get to that place where you're like, all right, I'm ready to roll up my sleeves and take responsibility for my experience as an embodied woman.

And what the hell does that actually look like? And so, you know, that's how there's like thousands of us, millions, you know, in our 30s and 40s trying to figure out what it means to be a woman. Like, what do we even... doing here? How do we approach this seeming dilemma of having it all and yet feeling so little of that havingness?

And what the hell does that actually look like? And so, you know, that's how there's like thousands of us, millions, you know, in our 30s and 40s trying to figure out what it means to be a woman. Like, what do we even... doing here? How do we approach this seeming dilemma of having it all and yet feeling so little of that havingness?

And what the hell does that actually look like? And so, you know, that's how there's like thousands of us, millions, you know, in our 30s and 40s trying to figure out what it means to be a woman. Like, what do we even... doing here? How do we approach this seeming dilemma of having it all and yet feeling so little of that havingness?

So you mentioned earlier that this is a nervous system matter. And I think that that took me a long time to recognize. And I feel like now, again, it's in the zeitgeist. We're starting to see that this isn't a will-based operation, right? There's no way that you can learn how to be a softer, more abundant woman. This isn't something you put on your to-do list.

So you mentioned earlier that this is a nervous system matter. And I think that that took me a long time to recognize. And I feel like now, again, it's in the zeitgeist. We're starting to see that this isn't a will-based operation, right? There's no way that you can learn how to be a softer, more abundant woman. This isn't something you put on your to-do list.

So you mentioned earlier that this is a nervous system matter. And I think that that took me a long time to recognize. And I feel like now, again, it's in the zeitgeist. We're starting to see that this isn't a will-based operation, right? There's no way that you can learn how to be a softer, more abundant woman. This isn't something you put on your to-do list.

And it's not something that you just sort of like... pray for or put on your Pinterest like manifestation board or whatever. You have to have a literal system, right? The neurophysiology must be aligned with having more, right? Because there's all sorts of ways that having more has been tagged as dangerous, right? And the having can be literal, right?

And it's not something that you just sort of like... pray for or put on your Pinterest like manifestation board or whatever. You have to have a literal system, right? The neurophysiology must be aligned with having more, right? Because there's all sorts of ways that having more has been tagged as dangerous, right? And the having can be literal, right?

And it's not something that you just sort of like... pray for or put on your Pinterest like manifestation board or whatever. You have to have a literal system, right? The neurophysiology must be aligned with having more, right? Because there's all sorts of ways that having more has been tagged as dangerous, right? And the having can be literal, right?

So like monetary assets and evidence that you are in a certain kind of class, right? But it can also be intangible, right? It could be more love, more erotic energy in your life. It could be more of a sense of belonging. And our systems will contract around that expansion when presented with the opportunity.