Dr. Matt May

But I think for some couples, this works really well. For other couples, I haven't seen it work that well for them. But I like it a lot. I think it slows down the communication instead of both parties trying to get their message across. uh, simultaneously to break it artificially into a speaker and a listener. Uh, it's just a genius approach.

But I think for some couples, this works really well. For other couples, I haven't seen it work that well for them. But I like it a lot. I think it slows down the communication instead of both parties trying to get their message across. uh, simultaneously to break it artificially into a speaker and a listener. Uh, it's just a genius approach.

Yes. Yes.

Yes. Yes.

I do.

I do.

Why should I have to do that if she's not cooperating?

Why should I have to do that if she's not cooperating?

Okay, all right, you win. I'll show up even if she doesn't.

Okay, all right, you win. I'll show up even if she doesn't.

Yeah, that makes sense.

Yeah, that makes sense.

That's clear.

That's clear.

I like that.

I like that.

Thank you.

Thank you.

I can only make guesses. I think one could be just that the intensity of the anger that had been repressed was so great that it served a bit like a hidden emotion. Or perhaps she was afraid that she would express something like that. She was afraid to let it out.

I can only make guesses. I think one could be just that the intensity of the anger that had been repressed was so great that it served a bit like a hidden emotion. Or perhaps she was afraid that she would express something like that. She was afraid to let it out.