Dr. Micaela

Okay, so...

Uh, it can also be, I, I am, uh, practically time blind.

And despite, I used to say that I have like a tardy arrival disorder.

Um, right.

It's just a funny way of saying like, I'm fucking late, like all the time.

And it doesn't matter how hard I try.

I am late and I'm late and I'm late.

And sometimes I feel like the

I have made everything happen to arrive somewhere a half an hour ahead of time.

And then there is the stupidest accident in the whole world and road construction on the main alternative route.

That is not my fault, right?

And because I'm late all the time, these rare occasions that are really not 100% my fault, they just fall into that pattern, right?

I don't do well with friends who value timeliness.

If that's a person who's like, I worked with someone who I adore, who had the mentality, like if you're not 10 minutes early, then you're late.

And let me tell you, we had a lot of learning in our early days.

holy gee, relationship, because that was not the way that I operated.

But we actually in that relationship learned how to balance each other out and that my strengths could overcome some of the things that she had a hard time with, just like her strengths really overcame some of my weaknesses.

So learning about yourself and learning to love the parts that are your warts or your weaknesses are things that can really transform your functioning.

Because now I'm not really that anxious because I have way fewer fucks to give.

When somebody is like, oh my God, you're so rude.