Dr Paul Eastwick
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first heard Feb 2026
last heard 22 Jun
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But I've never seen any data to suggest that that poses a unique problem, right?
Everybody's got to deal with threats.
Everybody's got to deal with temptations.
Right.
Well, no, but just just the idea that that a mismatch might have more of those like interloper threats.
I have not seen that data.
But what we do see time and time again is that if people have those biases activated, if they think their partner is more wonderful than everybody else, regardless of what everybody else thinks, those are the relationships that are more likely to last.
I think there is some limited amount of that that's a good idea, right?
There's like some really basic stuff, right?
I mean, working out's a really good idea.
Eating healthy is a really good idea, not just because it's gonna make you desirable, but because it's gonna make you happier about yourself, your life in general.
So these things are a good idea.
I just think we get locked into those solutions, locked into these self-improvement solutions, as opposed to,
the social network related solutions that maybe what would be good for me is like, okay, yes, I should go to the gym more.
Yes, it would help if I stopped eating dominoes at 11 p.m.
But I also need to remember to actually hang out with people in person and maybe try out some new hobbies and meet some new people if my current social networks aren't really doing it for me.
So I just want to turn down the emphasis on the self-improvement stuff because my suspicion is that though it helps some people a lot, either it only helps somewhat for other people, and when those solutions stop changing people's fortunes, they get frustrated.
So I really just want to remind people that there's another avenue out here.
Yeah.
Yeah, right.
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