Dr Paul Eastwick
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711 appearances
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first heard Feb 2026
last heard 22 Jun
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It can be a tall order, but these generally tend to be the things that matter the most for people.
That's a good question.
I think they underestimate...
the importance of vulnerability, their own vulnerability and the other person's.
And again, like you're describing it like a trait, but that isn't totally how I think about it.
It's not like I wanna find a vulnerable person.
I wanna find somebody who's willing to be vulnerable with me, who's willing to disclose things to me.
I mean, I don't know if you've ever had this experience of like getting to know somebody, but the first time they tell you something,
deeply personal about themselves.
You get the sense they haven't told this to many people.
That's kind of an aphrodisiac in and of itself.
It's like this person is really opening up to me.
They must really trust me.
Exactly.
So there's something at the intersection of vulnerability that I think people don't quite get.
I think when people think about dating, they think about self-promotion.
They think about putting the best version of themselves out there.
But a lot of times coming across, again, this is going to shock a lot, but there really is research on this.
Like coming across as a little bit vulnerable, a little bit like you kind of are like needy is too strong, but like just a touch of openness to having somebody else do things for you, to learning from another person.
That's maybe a good way of thinking about it.
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