Dr Paul Eastwick
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711 appearances
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first heard Feb 2026
last heard 22 Jun
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If anything, both men and women underestimate how much attractiveness is important and
And here, what I'm really talking about is the feeling you have that somebody else is attractive.
I think sometimes both women and even men to some extent think it's a little shallow if I put attractiveness at the top of my must-have attributes.
But it is important to think that your partner is sexy.
It's especially important to think your partner's a good lover.
I mean, we found that that was number one in terms of what actually mattered.
in terms of predicting how happy people were in their relationships.
If you ask people to rate that on a scale, it's not quite so high.
So those are a few of the examples.
But I think in large part,
What makes people happy in relationships is, yeah, you want to think your partner has all those things, but let's also don't forget about the dyadic stuff.
It's like, if I had a crappy day, do I feel like I can talk to you about it?
And you're going to listen to what went wrong with my day.
You're going to try to bolster me back up.
If something good happened to me, are you more excited about it than I am?
um it's it's supportiveness but it gets into a it's like supportiveness but supportive in a way that isn't like oh like you're a supportive friend like oh you're the kind of person everybody goes to when something's gone wrong i want you as a partner to be exceptionally attuned
To like my goals, my dreams.
I mean, this is kind of what we've done to marriage recently.
We expect our partner to do all these things.
But indeed, people tend to be much happier in their relationships if they feel like their partner has their back and is like supporting them as they pursue the things that they want to pursue.
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