Dr Paul Eastwick
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711 appearances
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2 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 22 Jun
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But I think the real problem is people not meeting.
I mean, I almost always go back to that.
Yeah.
I mean, maybe like fix the sink.
Like, you know, there's lots of useful things that people can do to make themselves appealing.
Education is just one among many.
But the problem is that if you're dating online and you're swiping, it's all being used as a screening criterion.
So you're not even getting to the first date, much less interacting with somebody.
No, no, I know it does.
No, but this is the problem.
This is why online dating makes it all worse, right?
Online dating means like, oh, not only are the tens going to do way better than the sevens who are going to do way better than the fours, but I don't even need to bother interacting with you in the first place if you don't check all the boxes.
And to me, that's a bummer because what I know and what I've seen time and time again
is that the boxes that you think are so important, and again, gender doesn't matter on this.
Men do this too.
The boxes that you think are so important, I can tell you, they go right out the window once you meet face-to-face, for good or for ill.
Um, I think, I think, look in broad strokes, they do get some of these things, right?
I mean, they think they want somebody that, that they find intelligent and somebody that they think has got a good sense of humor and, and somebody who's going to be loyal to them.
And indeed, like these are qualities that matter.
It's really important that we feel that our partners have these things.
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