Dr Paul Eastwick
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get into your 40s and 50s.
So you do and probably people get more out of shape too.
So I totally buy that that can be part of that broader age related trend.
Um, so, uh, so, so I do think there is something to that, but if we're thinking about like, you know, differences between people and a lot of the way these studies are done, it's like, I get some attributes on you at baseline.
And then I use that to predict how your partner feels about you, you know, three months later, six months later, you're
We're not talking about the kinds of timeframes in your example, but with those kinds of studies, the attributes that make somebody more desirable, the confident guys and women, the attractive men and women, when you use that to predict long-term relationship success, it just doesn't do all that much.
Okay.
I think it does suggest things about your about your personality.
And I'm certainly not going to suggest that it's necessarily a good idea or certainly not a good idea in all contexts.
But I think the easiest step for people to make is to think of short-term, long-term.
It's not a single dimension.
Let's talk about it as two dimensions, okay?
So some people...
you know, willing to have sex on the first date.
And some people are not.
And maybe those people will be good long-term partners or maybe they won't be.
Do you see what I mean?
Like think about it as independent ways of measuring differences between people.
rather than as a single dimension that we're putting people on.
It actually gets more complicated than that, but we can sort of start there with the idea that the notches that somebody has on their bedpost, it just ultimately doesn't predict that much about how happy they'll be in their relationships.
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