Dr Paul Eastwick
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And building one that lasts forever is really, really hard.
Like my perspective on relationships, you know, I talk about these fuzzy topics, right?
Relationship biases, attachments, you know, loving and support, blah, blah, blah.
I believe in all this stuff, but I don't mean to make it sound easy.
Like it's really hard and it's really easy for people to screw up too.
And when you do, the heartbreak is really, really tough.
So maintaining markets are tough.
Maintaining relationships are tough.
It's all tough.
But there are, I think, helpful ways in thinking about us as creatures who search for compatibility.
We care about attachment.
When you come at it that way, you realize there are other avenues.
And I think that can be helpful for people who are struggling.
I do know this study.
Okay.
I think I was a reviewer on it.
Okay.
I don't know what to say other than this is the only study of its kind that shows this.
I don't know how to explain it.
Their data are a little unusual.