Dr. Rachel Rubin

You don't love your husband.

Or yes, or it's just a bad marriage or you're stressed because you have four kids.

And yes, that's stressful.

And it is that minimization.

It's like death by a thousand cuts.

And so women, they stop even thinking that they can have good sex or that they deserve good sex or that they even know who to ask if they have a sexual problem.

You had the unique perspective, and I've had a few experts who take care of men and women on the show, and I've only taken care of women and delivered the baby boy, cut the cord, and then handed it off, okay?

So the only penis I look after is one.

But you had the perspective of taking care of women and taking care of men who come in with the exact same complaints, and you saw this huge dichotomy of how this was approached as far as sexual health.

I think we've actually been more successful at this because we're coming at this from the outside of OBGYN and saying, wait a minute, we don't do this for men.

Everything is so much easier.

Men, we can talk about quality of life.

Men, we can do shared decision making.

Men get to make choices for what they do with their body.

The science, the rigor of science, the level of science and the discussions around science are so much easier.

when it comes to men's health versus women's health.

The way we talk about women, you can't have this.

You absolutely shouldn't.

It's not that you shouldn't do this.

It's you can't take this.