Dr. Rachel Rubin

And so we see these homologues, and they're important because how you experience pleasure is important.

And so everyone knows, everyone who's ever pleasured a penis knows that you don't just lightly touch the head of the penis to get pleasure.

You don't touch the man's thigh to get pleasure.

It's kind of this whole shaft thing, and there's a whole thing, there's a whole organ there.

And so when you teach women about their organs and their body parts, you have to tell them that this is just the head of the clitoris, which is like the head of the penis.

There is a shaft and there are these legs that are sort of beneath the skin and a little bit deeper and may require excess stimulation, vibration, more, right?

Like, so you have to really think logically about your anatomy and why you are or are not having pleasure.

And so if a penis were buried and you couldn't access it with your hands or your mouth or vagina or whatever it was, how would you stimulate the penis?

And it's kind of that question of like, how do you stimulate a clitoris when you can only see the tip of the iceberg?

And that's why the vibrator industry is a billion dollar, many billion dollar industries and probably should be a trillion dollar industry.

If people understood that it doesn't make you a bad partner, most women are never going to orgasm from penetration.

Those who do, they're my ninja unicorns.

They're extra sensitive.

I have theories behind that if you're curious.

But the reality is, is most people orgasm from clitoral stimulation, just like most men orgasm from penis stimulation.

Why is it that Hollywood, every woman has a earth shattering orgasm within 14 seconds of penis and vagina orgasm?

Why is the WWF not real?

You know, it's entertainment.

How are you going to depict a female orgasm and female pleasure?

Who's doing those depictions and how do they choose to do it?