Dr. Rhonda Barofsky
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They're obviously very familiar with the steps and the techniques in team, and yet they seem to require the insight and guidance from yourself and Jill. Why do you think that is, if they're so well-versed in team already? Does that mean that a person from the general public doing their own work using your books without the guidance of a team therapist is futile?
They're obviously very familiar with the steps and the techniques in team, and yet they seem to require the insight and guidance from yourself and Jill. Why do you think that is, if they're so well-versed in team already? Does that mean that a person from the general public doing their own work using your books without the guidance of a team therapist is futile?
Or would you always recommend someone using a therapist? Kind regards, John
Or would you always recommend someone using a therapist? Kind regards, John
You know, you used the word I was going to use. We all are blinded by our own negative thoughts. And we don't see all of our positive traits. One time in the Tuesday group when we were still meeting in person, I did some work with you and Jill. And when we were in the positive reframing, she asked me a couple of questions about
You know, you used the word I was going to use. We all are blinded by our own negative thoughts. And we don't see all of our positive traits. One time in the Tuesday group when we were still meeting in person, I did some work with you and Jill. And when we were in the positive reframing, she asked me a couple of questions about
to get me to think about some of the positive aspects of what I was feeling. And that sparked insight that I don't think I could have gotten to by myself.
to get me to think about some of the positive aspects of what I was feeling. And that sparked insight that I don't think I could have gotten to by myself.
Can you provide more insights or instructions on how to do personal, excuse me, how to do positive reframing on your own? It seems to be an incredibly important key to Team CBT. Hey there, David and Rhonda. Hope you're keeping well. This is John from Ireland. And John wants to know, I'm always grateful for your inspiring work. I love your passion.
Can you provide more insights or instructions on how to do personal, excuse me, how to do positive reframing on your own? It seems to be an incredibly important key to Team CBT. Hey there, David and Rhonda. Hope you're keeping well. This is John from Ireland. And John wants to know, I'm always grateful for your inspiring work. I love your passion.
And I have a question on positive reframing as someone who is still trying to find my own journey to enlightenment following many months of anxiety and depression. I feel I'm failing at this positive reframing step. I still find I am bumping up against resistance and I feel that my positive values and benefits don't count.
And I have a question on positive reframing as someone who is still trying to find my own journey to enlightenment following many months of anxiety and depression. I feel I'm failing at this positive reframing step. I still find I am bumping up against resistance and I feel that my positive values and benefits don't count.
It's almost as if there's some kind of discounting the positive going on, like my negative points vastly outweigh my positive points. It's like there's such a negative filter, there's no space for recognizing positive qualities.
It's almost as if there's some kind of discounting the positive going on, like my negative points vastly outweigh my positive points. It's like there's such a negative filter, there's no space for recognizing positive qualities.
Yeah, it is. You didn't include that last question, are there bad things or are there consequences that would happen if you gave up on the negative thought or the negative feeling or beating up on yourself? And I think since you added that, and I've been talking about that with clients, that's really powerful.
Yeah, it is. You didn't include that last question, are there bad things or are there consequences that would happen if you gave up on the negative thought or the negative feeling or beating up on yourself? And I think since you added that, and I've been talking about that with clients, that's really powerful.
Okay, here's his second part of his question. I was listening to the beginning of episode 310, where a listener had an excellent contribution on positive reframing from your live work with NASLI. That got me thinking, would it be possible to hear more insights and detail on how to perform your own positive reframing work?
Okay, here's his second part of his question. I was listening to the beginning of episode 310, where a listener had an excellent contribution on positive reframing from your live work with NASLI. That got me thinking, would it be possible to hear more insights and detail on how to perform your own positive reframing work?
Uh-huh. Well, do you have a guideline or a worksheet anywhere? It feels like the most powerful of all the steps.
Uh-huh. Well, do you have a guideline or a worksheet anywhere? It feels like the most powerful of all the steps.